3 Fat Chicks on a Diet Weight Loss Community  

Go Back   3 Fat Chicks on a Diet Weight Loss Community > Support Forum > Support Groups > 100 lb. Club

Today

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 09-19-2005, 05:23 PM   #1
Senior Member
 
barbygirl43's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Oklahoma
Posts: 3,354

S/C/G: 344/279.1/???

Height: 5'6"

Default Today

How many of us have said today is the day? and we start off on a new plan or restart our old one. Next thing we know we're back to promising ourselves today is the day.
I would be a rich woman if I got paid for every time I said that. Over the weekend I finally realized that I'm staring at my "big" picture and not taking time to live in today. I look back over my past and what I could've done better and I look to the future and what I plan on doing never really taking the time to live in today.

My eating has been so out of whack lately and I've gained 10 pounds in the last month or so I decided that I have to do something different. Yesterday I only had v-8, a creamed soup and lots and lots of water. Then I ate dinner. Today I am also only having liquids and I'm learning to pay attention to my hunger cues. I've been mindlessly eating, overeating and binging for so long I couldn't tell you the last time I felt hunger pains. I've been eating for the sake of eating.

Today it has been tough but not because I was physically hungry. When the coworkers went to get their food I almost heated up my can of soup so I could have food. Was I hungry? Nope. I drank me another cup of v-8 and crocheted more on my son's afghan. I found that if I keep my hands busy I'm not thinking about food as much.

This morning I made it through all 3 miles of the WATP for abs tape. I wasn't winded at all and could've carried on a conversation and went for another 3 miles. Last month I was struggling to get through just 1 mile of the tape. I guess i truly didn't give my body time to heal and it showed. Instead of thinking maybe it's time to heal I went on an all out binge of whatever food you could imagine and had seconds to boot. Back to my walk. I kept thinking of all these great things I could do tomorrow, next week, next month, by halloween, etc. and I made myself stop all of those thoughts and instead focus on what I'm doing today. That's it.

I guess Sandi and I had about the same type of thinking over the weekend that it's time to focus on the here and now and not worry about what we want in the future. So that is my new plan. I will only worry about today.

Of course I'll be planning for tomorrow tonight.
__________________
Dawnyal

Halloween Goal


barbygirl43 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-19-2005, 05:47 PM   #2
Howie6267's Honey
 
Gardenwife's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Newark, OH
Posts: 1,679

S/C/G: 277 / See ticker / 160

Height: 5'9"

Default

Sounds like a plan, Dawnyal.
__________________
I was down to 199, but got back up to 280. Know what? No matter what my emotions, hormones and taste buds say, I won't ever give up!

My blog, my fella & my fella's blog.

Total weight loss:










Gardenwife is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-19-2005, 06:11 PM   #3
Linda
 
famograham's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Beautiful Vancouver Island, B.C. Canada
Posts: 1,781

Height: 5'0"

Default

Sounds really good Dawnyal

Looks like we're having a lot of revelations around here this week...it's wonderful!

xoxoxo
Linda
__________________
TRYING to leave the batteries out of my scale!!
famograham is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-19-2005, 09:32 PM   #4
Senior Member
 
Sheila53's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Seattle, WA
Posts: 4,664

S/C/G: 261/148/below 160

Height: 5'8" (Dang, I shrank an inch!)

Default

Good for you, Dawnyal!
__________________
Sheila

Women who behave rarely make history.
Sheila53 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-19-2005, 10:03 PM   #5
Senior Member
 
Jenaya's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2004
Posts: 399

Default

Good for you Dawnyal. One day at a time (or minute if need be)....
__________________
Jenaya
My keys to success: Consistency, Awareness, Movement

If you don't look after your body, where are you going to live????
Jenaya is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-19-2005, 10:50 PM   #6
Born Loser
 
howie6267's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Newark, OH
Posts: 2,528

S/C/G: 490/See Tracker/245

Default

You can do it Dawnyal. We have all started over a hunderd times like you said. The thing is maybe start 101 is the one that sticks. So keep trying and you will do it. Never give up.
__________________
Goal of 245 Made 12/21/05 Half the man.
New Goal to regain the above goal.

Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever
you do, do all to the glory of God. 1 Corinthians 10:31


Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
howie6267 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-19-2005, 11:43 PM   #7
Senior Member
 
mezmerize's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Midwest
Posts: 1,449

S/C/G: 240/ticker/120

Height: 5 foot 4

Default

Dawnyal, what a wonderful insight. Your doing great with WATPs! Thanks for sharing.
__________________
Mezster

In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.
Albert Einstien



"We do not know the true value of our moments
until they have undergone the test of memory."
Georges Duhamel
In Memory Of Lessofsarahtolove
mezmerize is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2005, 01:58 AM   #8
Black Belt In Training
 
taekwondomom's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 659

S/C/G: 289/243/160

Height: 5' 7"

Default

That's sounds like a good plan! Work on today and tomorrow takes care of itself.
Good work on the WATP!
__________________
Laura

How far I've come thus far...
taekwondomom is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2005, 03:19 AM   #9
Member
 
tuckytex's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: central bc
Posts: 51

Default

Hi Dawnyal and everyone

Good for you for having such a good realization. I lost 67 pounds once and gained it all back because I let myself get back into my old habits and I think it is great that you realized now, and can now manage yourself. I wish I could be were you are in your weightloss! Hopefully I get there too I am so jealous of you!
Danica
__________________
tuckytex is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2005, 07:50 AM   #10
Senior Member
 
jmacway's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 261

Default

Good for you!
jmacway is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2005, 08:50 AM   #11
One pound at a time...
 
ChocLabLover's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Stoney Creek, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1,216

Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by barbygirl43
I would be a rich woman if I got paid for every time I said that.
Amen to that! I have always said that I could retire if I was paid everytime I said I am starting over. So much so, that I do not bother telling anyone when I have decided to lose weight, because I do not want them to judge or think "here we go again". Not that everyone does, but sometimes you can't help feeling that way after all the previous times.
__________________
Carol
Long Term Goal

ChocLabLover is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2005, 09:11 AM   #12
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Posts: 380

Default

It is so painful when we comb over all the times we started and stopped and started again. I used to hate listening to the Dr. Phil's of the world tell us that there was some reason we were keeping the weight on -- it had some payoff for us. Then I realized, the Dr. Phils are right and we just have to come to a point where losing the weight is more important than the payoff for being overweight. For me, it came when I realized that, during my overweight adult life, I have always been active. It was never TRULY important to lose weight for health because I have always been fat and fit. But, after 3 children in 11 months (2 older through adoption) and hitting 35, my body betrayed me and it becamse tough being fat. SO, the day I realized it was harder to be fat than to lose weight was the day I said goodbye to the payoff.

I wonder if you might be at that point, where you are realizing that the payoff is no longer one that makes losing weight seem so awful? It sounds like that is what is happening. I encourage you, besides all the great things you are already ding, to journal this journey from here out (blog perhaps?). It helps a lot.
__________________
Peace,
Paula

Started Sonoma Diet 1/9/06. St. Patty's Goal:


Started 7/11/05 @ 278
Weight loss to date: 38 lbs.
Goal: 160


Program: pure foods, weight lifting, cardio

Body for Life 9/26/05-12/19/05 after about 8 weeks of non BFL lifiting
irishgreengables is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2005, 09:57 AM   #13
Hanging in the Heartland
 
activeadventurer's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Minneapolis, Minnesota
Posts: 820

Default

Great insights Dawnyal and Irishgreengables.

And congratulations Dawnyal on the WATP. It took me about 4 months to work up to 3 miles and I do it sitting down!!!

One of the things your post reminded me about, is to continue to struggle against food as reward, punishment, denial, freedom, release etc. etc. and see it for what it truly is...nourishment.

Thanks, DCM
__________________
Healthy nutrition, exercise and stress reduction are my #1 priorities


Last edited by activeadventurer : 09-20-2005 at 10:16 AM.
activeadventurer is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2005, 09:59 AM   #14
Shairing her ESH...
 
Jen415's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Space Coast, Florida
Posts: 3,421

S/C/G: 350/321/TBD

Height: 5'6"

Default

Wow, another great post!! Thanks for opening my eyes!
__________________
One day at a time is more than just a saying.....
First goal: Back under 300!
Jen415 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2005, 12:28 PM   #15
Downsizing Dee!
 
newfiedarling's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Canada
Posts: 909

Default

Excellent post Dawnyal! Of course, you're absolutely right.

~Dee
__________________
Getting Back to Goal


Ultimate Goal
newfiedarling is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply
Posts by members, moderators and admins are not considered medical advice
and no guarantee is made against accuracy.


Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 01:59 AM.






Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2015, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.3.2