So my husband and I went to drop some stuff at my ex husband's place yesterday. I wouldn't have worried about it, but a few of the items were things that were his father's, so I didn't want to throw them out since he doesn't have much to remember him by.
It was very odd. He and his friend are roommates, I haven't seen the ex in about 5 years, and the friend in about 6. They both said I looked good (the friend is a little weird and not free with compliments).
I was shocked when I saw the ex though, he's always been a big guy. He had weight loss surgery in 2006, and he's bigger than he's ever been. I knew he wasn't well through mutual friend, but seeing him was shocking.
I wish I could help him, but he needs to help himself.
Just needed to get that off my chest.