Tamara, I'm glad you're feeling better, though I know it's not easy and will probably not be easy for quite some time. I know there are people that would say you're crazy to let him have the kids with that allegation of assault ... but this is a call for you to make, because certainly none of us know the real situation. If that 13 yo is making false accusations, it's really sad because it so diminishes children that are being abused -- obviously, I can't say if he/she is lying, telling the truth, or exaggerating. Ultimately, you just need to make sure you don't put blinders on when it comes to your kids, and it sounds to me like you've got your eyes wide open.
Take care,
Pen
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