I can totally understand your feelings...it's weird and uncomfortable to get attention from men!
But...I think you're overthinking this situation. If someone asks you to dance and you want to dance, then do it! It doesn't matter if the guy is short, tall, fat, skinny, old, young, bald or with long flowing hair. You don't have to be attracted to someone do dance with them. Just because you dance with them doesn't mean you have to kiss them, or sleep with them, or marry them. It's just a dance!
And, if you don't feel comfortable--then don't dance! It's as simple as that. Say your shoes are uncomfrotable (more likely than not, this will be true!).
Good luck!
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Mini-goal #1: 1st 10 lbs: 10/07/09
Mini-goal #2: 10% of body weight: 4/28/10 ( Finally!)
Mini-goal #3: 211 lbs (my all-time adult low): 1/26/11
Mini-goal #4: 20% of SW (202lbs):
Mini-gaol #5: Onederland!:
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