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Old 09-18-2002, 09:29 AM   #1
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Dropping by to let you know, I have not forgotten about you all nor have I fell off the face of earth.

I am going through a very very difficult time right now, and I cannot seem to concentrate on anything, including any weightloss efforts.
I was sexually assaulted, and while the man is in jail and being charged, I do not feel safe. My life has changed again, and am trying very hard to get through this. I begin therapy tonight, and I am hoping it will begin to help me.

Please pray for me to find the strength and courage to face this.


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Old 09-18-2002, 10:25 AM   #2
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Oh, Jennifer!!! I have no idea what to say other than I'm here for you if you need anything & I will be saying extra prayers for you. I hope the therapy goes well for you. Again, {{hugs}} & you're in my prayers...
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Old 09-18-2002, 10:33 AM   #3
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Jennifer - you are in my thoughts and my prayers. I have a friend who had the same thing happen - If you need anything, just holler!! *hugs!*
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Old 09-18-2002, 10:36 AM   #4
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Oh, Jennifer I am so sorry! Please, please know that people here are praying for you and thinking about you. I can't begin to imagine what you're going through.

I don't know why something this horrible has happened but know that you have lots of support here.

I'm glad the disgusting excuse for a human is in jail where he can't harm you or anyone else.

Good luck with counseling--I hope you have a good, compassionate therapist who listens and cares. Do you have someone who can take you to and from the sessions? Lean on us in the forum for strength and courage. Cry when you need to, get angry when you need to. Lean on friends and family who are loving and supportive. You don't have to go through this alone. We're here with cyberhugs and lots of love.

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Old 09-18-2002, 11:36 AM   #5
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Oh sweetie ,

Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers. We are here if you need to let it out. Scream, cry, need a hug, etc....
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Old 09-18-2002, 12:38 PM   #6
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My dear friend...what can I say.

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I am so sorry that this has happened to you. Please know that I am here fo you.

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Old 09-18-2002, 01:01 PM   #7
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Jennifer... I am so sorry. I know that you are a strong person. I hope you get the help that you deserve.

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Old 09-18-2002, 01:34 PM   #8
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Old 09-18-2002, 01:59 PM   #9
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Thank you everyone...means alot to me.

He made bail unfortunatly. But hopefully, he will stay away. Court date is next month.

Thanks again guys. I will keep in touch.

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Old 09-18-2002, 03:40 PM   #10
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The kind of men who behave like this make me SO angry. He has no right whatsoever to ruin your life - please do your best not to let him. It's not easy, but I know you can be strong.

Will be thinking about you... let us know how you're doing.

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Old 09-18-2002, 03:41 PM   #11
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Oh Jennifer I'm so sorry to hear that it happened. I'm glad to hear that you are going to go to counseling. Many victims think they can get by without it. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

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Old 09-18-2002, 04:57 PM   #12
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Jennifer I don't know what to say. I am so sorry that this has happened to you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that this person is punished for what he has done to you.

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Old 09-18-2002, 09:53 PM   #14
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{crying here} Jenniffer I am so sorry that happened to you (or anybody for that matter) Just know it was not your fault. You are definatley in my prayers. I wish i was closer and i would go ans sit with you!!! hang in there and stop in when you are ready!! (I had missed you) You know we will be here for you.
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Old 09-18-2002, 11:24 PM   #15
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want us to go hang him??? we could castrate him first... without anesthesia. of course.
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