3 Fat Chicks on a Diet Weight Loss Community  

Go Back   3 Fat Chicks on a Diet Weight Loss Community > Support Forum > Support Groups > 100 lb. Club

general emo rant, move along, nothing to see here...

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 02-27-2010, 06:43 AM   #1
Token rooster
 
matt_H's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Boston, MA
Posts: 1,508

Height: 6'2

Angry general emo rant, move along, nothing to see here...

The lowest weight I've gotten down to is 229.2. As soon as I hit a new low, I update my signature.

This morning, my weight is all the way back up to 233.4. I've been fluctuation between 1-5 pounds above my lowest weight all this week. I know I've been hitting my calorie mark and exercising, so this is totally water retention or something else.

I've been progressively lifting heavier and heavier weights, which could be a factor (I'm told DOMS is associated with water retention). I've also had two fancy restaurant meals this week. While the menu items where healthy, I have no idea how much sodium was used.

This morning is my weight watchers meeting. I'm tempted to skip it because I absolutely hate to weigh in there when I'm going to be up, even when I know it isn't because of bad food choices. Its silly, but I feel like the receptionist would think I've pigged out showing up with a 4 pound gain this week.
__________________
Height: 6'2
Starting weight/ Current low weight/"redline" weight
446.8/179.2/180.0
Total: 267.6 pounds.

I will do the Komen 60 mile walk for breast cancer again this year!!
Next goal is 175: Pounds from goal = 4.2.
matt_H is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 07:15 AM   #2
3 + years maintaining
 
rockinrobin's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 12,070

S/C/G: 287/120's

Height: 5 foot nuthin'

Default

Matt, I know what you mean, but we here know that that weight has nothing to do with you ummm, pigging out. We know it and more importantly YOU know it. When you know there's nothing that you've done to "cause" this uppage, you really can't let it get to you - as hard as that may be.

I think you should go to that meeting, just so that you keep the continuity going. Giving yourself permission to skip this time, may just make it easier to skip it in the future and then it will no longer be doing the same thing for you - providing you with that all important accountability.

Walk in there with your head held high. Just think how you'll wow em' next week when that water weight is gone AND a few related friends...
rockinrobin is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 07:36 AM   #3
Senior Member
 
grrrkgrrrl's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Posts: 214

S/C/G: 84.7 kg/66.5kg/66.5kg

Height: 5'6''

Default

i agree with rockinrobin,

keeping consistency even when it doesn't really suit you will help you keep on track! and yes, damn those restaurant meals, the ARE full in sodium.
you know it, they don't have to take your word, but you know it and that's what important.

it's gonna make next week all the sweeter when you have a big drop!

xx
grrrkgrrrl is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 09:08 AM   #4
Don't Give Up!
 
VickieLou's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: WI
Posts: 1,654

S/C/G: 262/202.8/142

Height: 5'4"

Smile

Matt, you should go to the meeting. You are eating healthy and exercising.
It helps going to the meetings. Woman have to deal with gaining weight around the TOM. So now lifting weights is like your TOM. Enjoy the meeting!
__________________

VickieLou is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 09:18 AM   #5
Senior Member
 
PeanutsMom704's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Posts: 2,020

S/C/G: 263/ticker/156

Height: 5'7"

Default

don't skip it but don't take it to heart either. You know why it's up, and it's not about doing the wrong thing or making bad choices or backsliding. And you'll have the good numbers very soon.
__________________
Long Term Goal

1st 10% - 2/2/10
Current Goal - 2nd 10%

PeanutsMom704 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 09:24 AM   #6
Restart Date: 10/25/2009
 
lovemyboy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 587

S/C/G: 215/160/115 HW: 235

Default

Definately go. I just went through a similar holding pattern that lasted 2 1/2 weeks and today it broke. Yours will too. It has to.
__________________
Onederland: 12/24/2009, Class I Obesity (197): 1/16/2010, Overweight BMI (169): 8/28/2010, Normal BMI (135): ??,

10% of start weight lost (193.5): 2/02/2010, 20% (172): 7/25/2010, 25% (161.25): 11/26/2010, 30% (150.5): ??, 40% (128.5): ??

One for every 5 pounds lost:
lovemyboy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 10:06 AM   #7
Positive Focus
 
BeachBreeze2010's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Ohio
Posts: 1,041

S/C/G: 225/ticker/125

Height: 5'1"

Default

DOMS is related to water retention. I think men in general have larger normal swings than women because thier bodies are just bigger. You have more muscle that holds in fluids and a larger digestive tract. My husband seems to fluctuate like that normally. I would imagine you do too, but weight loss muddies that a bit. WW (and most weight loss programs) are so female focused that I think they can lose sight of what's normal for men. If I went up 4lbs in one week, that would be one **** of a TOM week or most likely I pigged out and at least half of it was sodium. For you, I could easily see it as what you say. I would hope the receptionist doesn't judge like that, especially you! Seriously, you're not exactly a week 3 participant here. I am sure she knows you are doing the right things. I would go and weigh and then next week when you start to see some changes, it will that much better.
__________________
Annie

There's no ticker here because I have no idea what I weigh, nor do I have plans to get on the scale anytime soon. My goals are to take care of myself in healthy ways and let the scale fall wherever it will. "It's not about skinny anymore - it's about healthy."
BeachBreeze2010 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 10:11 AM   #8
Senior Member
 
Beverlyjoy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Midwest
Posts: 7,349

S/C/G: 271/219/healthy

Height: 5'4 1/2"

Default

Matt - remember that every time you step on the scale - it is that moment in time that takes into account food eaten, energy exerted, sodium, water, hormones and much more. You KNOW that you've been on your plan and not eaten enough for that big gain.
__________________

Move ticker, move!
Next Mini Goal - 214

"You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it." - Margaret Thatcher

I can't lose 100 pounds....but, just maybe I can lose five pounds twenty times.
Beverlyjoy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 10:22 AM   #9
Never surrender
 
dragonwoman64's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Brooklyn, NY
Posts: 2,751

S/C/G: 251 current/237 minigoal/180

Height: 5' 9"

Default

well, the meetings are for you and support with your weight loss efforts, use them to your best advantage.

I'd imagine they've seen every up and down with people and don't want to judge anyone, whatever the reason for a gain. Honestly, you've done such an amazing job with your weight loss, you should keep that in mind, too.
__________________
dragonwoman64 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 10:53 AM   #10
Senior Member
 
kaplods's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Wausau, WI
Posts: 13,361

S/C/G: SW:394/310/180

Height: 5'6"

Default

I also wouldn't skip the weigh-in, because I wouldn't want to miss the super-awesome drop the following week.

Believe me, the weight-recorder won't blink an eye at a 4 lb gain, they've seen much, much worse. One week every month (female stuff) I gain 8 to 10 lbs in water retention, always have. The weight-recorders were never rude, but I could tell some were skeptical of my "excuse" until they saw the 15 lb loss the next week.

As a male, you can't blame hormones (well you could, and it might be good for a laugh if you try), but as you've mentioned there are other factors that contribute to water-retention weight gain (normal, and inevitable). You would be unusual if you didn't have occasional water-retention gains.
__________________
My Etsy shop (currently closed for the summer)

http://www.dreamstormdesigns.etsy.com
etsy link by permission from 3fc! Want to add yours? Ask them!

Last edited by kaplods : 02-27-2010 at 10:54 AM.
kaplods is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 11:06 AM   #11
Back on Track 2 Healthy
 
cathydoe's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Midwest
Posts: 2,869

S/C/G: 270/254.4/Healthy

Height: 5 feet Tall

Default

Doesn't muscle weigh more that fat? Hang your head high Matt...you are awesome!
__________________
2011(ish) and I didn't understand:
Alice came to a fork in the road. "Which road do I take?" she asked.
"Where do you want to go?" responded the Cheshire cat.
"I don't know," Alice answered.
"Then," said the cat, "it doesn't matter."
~ Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

2015
I'm making a plan & working that plan. I have direction & discipline! Who knew it was possible?
cathydoe is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 11:51 AM   #12
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: In La-La Land
Posts: 3,669

Height: 5'8"

Default

Matt. Go to the meeting. Obviously you are a weight loss pro, but obviously even you need a gentle reminder from time to time. I also lower my ticker weight as soon as I see a lower number, which means I have grown used to see the eventual bump back-- and yet, that number still goes lower. Getting the bump on record will just be an excuse for a bigger loss next time.

You rock and don't forget it.
__________________


End of 2014 Challenge

Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.--Winston Churchill

SUCCESS WITHOUT KRYPTONITE!
First Mini-Goal: 260 by vacation.
met 7/25/14
Second Mini-goal 240.5 Half of regain gone.
Third mini-goal below 230 by the end of 2014
ubergirl is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 11:52 AM   #13
Senior Member
 
marigrace's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 810

S/C/G: See Ticker

Height: 5'3.5''

Default

Matt, you are doing it right. Don't let the scale throw you.
__________________


My etsy shop :
www.etsy.com/shop/moxiealleysoaps?ref=si_shop
marigrace is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 12:08 PM   #14
Never want to go back!
 
CLCSC145's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 2,804

S/C/G: 338.4/190.8/165

Height: 6 ft

Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by ubergirl View Post
You rock and don't forget it.
I second that! Hang in there, Matt .
__________________
CLCSC145 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-27-2010, 12:12 PM   #15
Senior Member
 
PaulaM's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: California
Posts: 680

Height: 5'5"

Default

I just looked at how much weight you have lost, you are AWESOME! What a fantastic job you are doing. I too would go to that meeting. Like others have said, women are used to seeing the numbers go up and down, I know for men it's usually just a straight course down.

I have no doubt whatsoever you will continue to lose and meet your goals.
PaulaM is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply
Posts by members, moderators and admins are not considered medical advice
and no guarantee is made against accuracy.


Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 11:39 AM.






Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2015, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.3.2