I think this is yet another case of us taking ourselves WAY too seriously... and I think maybe a lot of us saw more of ourselves in the character than we really wanted to... I loved the movie, it made me laugh, and it made me cry too, for the kids, for her... even for him, being brainwashed into thinking he had to have a *perfect* woman, at such a young age... but you know what? Just like we're brainwashed that we NEED to be pefect, little boys are brainwahsed that they need to find perfection, that women should look like supermodels, and a few more could stand to be brainwashed OUT of that mindset. I think EVERYONE needs to step outside of themselves and have a good giggle every once in a while... I crack jokes about myself all the time....why shouldn't I get a giggle from another perspective of it... yes, the huge panties were ridiculous...the chairs breaking, the water in the pool... but it was to pound home the point that there was something he was missing about this girl...and quite frankly, I was lmao, and then some...