Another vote to avoid the Depo here. Did your doctor mention that one side effect can be that you completely lose your libido? It's true; it's the same drug they use to "chemically castrate" child molesters, rapists, etc. Fifteen years ago, my doc failed to mention any of this to me before I got the shots for a year... once I figured it out, it took nearly 2 years for everything to get back to normal. Depo Provera.... <shudder....>
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