Airbrushed images of celebrities!
Ok, this is how I see my weight loss journey/quest/thingy. YMMV, so let's talk about it.
I am not destined to be fat/obese/$word. Because of my height, sex and frame there is a healthy weight out there with my name on it. This is not about me starving myself, working out until I drop from exhaustion, or expending unhealthy amounts of energy on an unattainable and sick ideal.
It's about becoming the woman I am meant to be. It's about the best and most fulfilling kind of honesty; being truthful to the person underneath all my layers and walls and barriers and whatever.
It is NOT about LYING. That's perhaps what really narks me about these photos and this detestable practice in general. They're filthy lies. Filthier than dirty nappies, worse than dirty nappies in fact, because dirty nappies, whilst unpleasant, are at least a sign of something healthy (at least most of the time...but I digress).
I don't know about anyone else here, but at least some of my issues come from teenage years looking at magazines adorned with girls who were five foot slimmer than me. Knowing that even those photos are lies....ARRRRGH. It makes me SO CROSS. It's hard enough for me to really learn about the kind of person I am without the media raising the bar impossibly high when it comes to looks.