Oh oh, time to use this power for good. You are feeling sick and emotional so why not right your husband a mash note and leave it on the pillow or with his razor or whatever, just make sure its a positive note saying good things about both of you and what you want to do with him. Don't worry about the kid, he will get it eventually. Easy to say I know. My oldest is a girl and it was like she understood the third time it was explained to her and had a very small number of accidents after. My twin boys? I thought I would be changing their diapers in high school. Hang in there and take care of yourself, don't let the flu convince you that things with your hubby are bad if they really arent, you might not be at your most logical right this second. Hope you feel better really soon!
