Hi! I'm so glad you've found this place.
You're about to embark on a fantastic journey. Don't dread it. Revel in it. Celebrate it. Get excited about it. You most absolutely, positively CAN do this. Losing weight (& keeping it off is a doable thing) and every one and any one can do it. Yourself included. The best way to not fail? - determine to succeed. This is with in your hands, your power, your control. Set yourself up for success. Make a plan, set yourself some boundaries and rules. Get excited. Get moving. Get going. And amazing things will start to happen.