Hugs Aimee! I know it sucks so much to experience that.. but don't let his ignorance dissuade you from being the person you want to be and living the life you want to live!
I remember being in a similar situation, and it hurts hellishly, unfortunately. But you've got to somehow decide that you are more important than one thoughtless, insensitive, and disrespectful comment - I say "got to", because you deserve to reach your dreams!
I remember at one point thinking - if I decide to direct my life based on what other people think of me - that's gonna suck and it's going to be unfair to me! It's already tough enough to be going through what I'm going through!
Why would I choose to victimize myself and hold myself back in life because of something someone said about me? Isn't it bad enough that they said/did that and I experienced it? Why give their words/deeds so much power that they will dictate how I feel about myself and how I live my life? It's MY life, I decide, NOT them through their opinion of me. I don't have to accept what people dish out to me, I can choose and I deserve to choose.
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Last edited by beautifulone : 07-18-2009 at 09:13 PM.
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Makin' me blush over here.. 
Just to get some of the pent up aggressive I have out of me! 
