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Old 06-11-2009, 11:07 AM   #1
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I got a phone call this morning that a very good friend's husband died this week. He was 37 years old. They just celebrated their 2nd wedding anniversary in May. This was very sudden, I have not gotten the full story but I know the problem they discovered (liver I think) deteriorated in a matter of days and he died at home with his wife and two young stepdaughters and close family members. As the day goes on I am just feeling a growing sadness sad about the whole thing and I'm finding it hard to concentrate. I can't say I'm upset enough to run to food but and I intend on going and exercising this evening but it is just that heavy feeling of grief of losing a friend and grief for a friend who is hurting. Anyway, I just felt like I had to get that out. All thoughts and prayers for my friend and her two daughters and their family are all welcome and embraced.
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Old 06-11-2009, 11:12 AM   #2
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Sorry to hear that.

Condolences to his family and friends.
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Old 06-11-2009, 11:20 AM   #3
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So sorry.
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Old 06-11-2009, 11:28 AM   #4
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I am so sorry. That is way too young.
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Old 06-11-2009, 11:41 AM   #5
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Definitely too young......so sorry for your loss. Sounds like you have a better plan than turning to food...
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Old 06-11-2009, 11:43 AM   #6
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So sorry for your loss & heartache.
He was way too young.
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Old 06-11-2009, 11:58 AM   #7
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Im sorry you are hurting. Can you explain what happened to him?
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Old 06-11-2009, 12:14 PM   #8
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I am so sorry.
I'm sure you will be a comfort to your friend.
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Old 06-11-2009, 12:24 PM   #9
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Thank you everyone. My heart is just heavy for her. I can't explain what happened, at this point I've just found out and I don't have the full story... only second hand. I'm sure I will know better what happened after attending the services and talking with my friend.
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Old 06-11-2009, 12:28 PM   #10
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Oh dear, that is so sad.
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I'm sorry for your and your friend's loss.
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Old 06-11-2009, 04:43 PM   #13
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So sorry to hear that. Death is never easy when it's someone young and unexpected.
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Old 06-11-2009, 08:06 PM   #14
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I am so sorry to hear that
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I am also sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your friend.
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