I am a recent occupant to this website and thought I would share my latest struggle. I have lost my first twenty pounds and find myself disgusted with my body. I thought my fat would shrink away a little and I would be left with some loose skin in the end but not too terribly much. Well the fat is going away, but the skin has yet to shring at all, my fat on my belly just keeps getting jigglier and I find myself getting embarrased when I go running cause I jiggle more now that i ever did before, my wife tells me I look beautiful but I feel more disgusting with every pound I loose.
Short Term Goal: Pounds Till I Am No Longer OBESE
Long Term Goal: Pounds Till I Am At A Healthy Weight
Second - patience. And then...more patience. The alternative is to what...give up? Do you really think you will be happier at a higher weight?
Don't be so hard on yourself. Just keep doing what you have been doing. You may never be entirely happy with your body - but you will be amazed at what it can do if you keep up the eating right and the exercise.