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Old 10-06-2007, 12:43 PM   #1
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Do you have a secret goal in your weight loss? Do you want to achieve something that you haven't told anyone? Besides just fitting into smaller clothes what are you secretly wanting to do?

For me, my secret goal is to be able to wear my wedding ring again. I know, it doesn't sound like a big deal but it is to me. I've been married for 20 years now. My youngest child is 10 years old now. Since the time I was pregnant with her I haven't been able to wear my ring. After her birth I never seemed to be able to fit into it again. So for the last 10 years I've worn various other bigger rings on that finger. I never could bring myself to get my ring resized so I could wear it. It felt like I would be giving in to being fat if I did. I knew that I should resize myself instead and that someday I would be able to wear that ring again. So now hear I go. I'm on my way to wearing my ring again. I know that wearing a smaller size in my clothes is going to feel pretty good but, the day I can comfortably put my ring back on is going to be the best day ever!
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Old 10-06-2007, 01:40 PM   #2
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welll.... i KNOW i should be no more than 160-5 pounds...but i've seen pics of me at 225 and I secretly JUST want that
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Old 10-06-2007, 02:24 PM   #3
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Here's my secret.

I want to wear THIS DRESS by 12-31-08.
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Old 10-06-2007, 03:07 PM   #4
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Thank goodness for the anonymity of the internet! Warning, TMI ahead.

I always told myself I would never lose my virginity until I was under 200lbs.

I'm currently 18 and in love with my boyfriend of two years. We are "intimate" but have never gone all the way. He loves me and supports my decision, and I'm so glad he's understanding. I think our relationship has grown more because most people our age just focus in on the physical but we've grown to known eachother as complete individuals.

Of course I'm kinda hoping that we get married 3 years from now, so hopefully I'll lose the weight by then. I know I can. If not I'll be a virgin bride, and that night I'll give up the goal! lol

Oh, and this goal has nothing to do with me thinking I'm "unsexy." I see myself as beautiful and a lot of big women as flat out erotically beautiful. It's just a personal goal, and very good motivation!!!
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Old 10-06-2007, 03:23 PM   #5
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My secret goal, this is silly but...here goes...


I wanna stand next to Lucy lawless, nude, and know that I look better.
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Old 10-06-2007, 03:43 PM   #6
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To walk through the house naked, in the daylight, with my husband home, and feel good about it
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Old 10-06-2007, 04:05 PM   #7
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To fit into my skinny bf's T-shirt. *Embarrased Smile*
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Old 10-06-2007, 04:31 PM   #8
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To walk through the house naked, in the daylight, with my husband home, and feel good about it

This is my goal as well.
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Old 10-06-2007, 04:33 PM   #9
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I want to be 150 and look great. Everyone says that I would look anerexic at that size but it'd be a normal BMI and all that. My goal of 170 is still in overweight range.
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Old 10-06-2007, 05:55 PM   #10
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To wear a sophisticated business suit and look good in it!
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Old 10-06-2007, 06:30 PM   #11
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To have my body fat be in the fitness level 21-24%...only 4% to go!
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Old 10-06-2007, 06:37 PM   #12
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I want to be able to wear my wedding dress again, and surprise (shock?) my husband. Would like to do this on our anniversary in July next year. It would be 16 years since I last wore it.

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Old 10-06-2007, 07:06 PM   #13
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My husband's got some really close old friends who live on the other side of the country. I've always avoided meeting them because I always figured they would wonder why my husband married such a fat chick. We're always going to figure out a way to get together but I always manage to keep it from happening. It doesn't help that they knew his ex-wife and she was pretty much model quality. I'd like to meet them, and have it be easier for my husband to see them, without feeling like they are going to talk about me in the car on the way home.
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Old 10-06-2007, 07:24 PM   #14
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Default Wow!

Thanks for all the responses. It's nice to know that other people have secrets. It's funny how many involve being naked! Lucy Lawless huh? Funny mine would have been Mel Gibson!

Keep your secrets coming. These are really great!
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Old 10-06-2007, 08:16 PM   #15
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Default Thank you!

Supersub, thank you for starting this thread. It is very liberating!

Go Pita!
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