Does it have to be all or nothing? My brother is an alcoholic, and he can be completely draining, and I hate that I can't "fix" his situation. But, if some major milestone happens in his life - like his birthday or something - I will send a card. When I drive the 800 miles to see my parents, I make sure that I see him as well. He's always welcome to call, but he knows that I won't answer his calls after 10 p.m., etc. Why not go see her in the hospital, congratulate her, and see where it goes from there? It might be a good first step to dip a toe in the water without plunging in right away.
onederland in 2016
Trainer boy challenge #3 (11/11-12/11):
Not successful. =(
(Trainer boy challenge #1 completed 09/11 - down 23.2 pounds - starting weight 239.8) (Trainer boy challenge #2 completed 11/11 - down 23.4 pounds - starting weight 216.6)