Comments on: Sometmes it’s the ppl who love us the most that end up hurting us http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/whiy/2009/11/10/sometmes-its-the-ppl-who-love-us-the-most-that-end-up-hurting-us/ Just another 3fatchicks.com weblog Sat, 26 May 2012 00:38:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Diane Fit to the Finish http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/whiy/2009/11/10/sometmes-its-the-ppl-who-love-us-the-most-that-end-up-hurting-us/#comment-12 Diane Fit to the Finish Wed, 11 Nov 2009 20:03:10 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/whiy/?p=10#comment-12 I too like the idea of being fit for the new year!! I'm sorry your mom doesn't understand. I really believe that people who have never struggled with their weight just don't get it. They don't have those emotional attachments to eating like we do. (Myself included here!) I don't think it's wrong to feel the need for some boundaries. Boundaries can be very healthy in a relationship, protecting both parties. Take care, Diane I too like the idea of being fit for the new year!!

I’m sorry your mom doesn’t understand. I really believe that people who have never struggled with their weight just don’t get it. They don’t have those emotional attachments to eating like we do. (Myself included here!)

I don’t think it’s wrong to feel the need for some boundaries. Boundaries can be very healthy in a relationship, protecting both parties.

Take care,
Diane

]]> By: Effie http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/whiy/2009/11/10/sometmes-its-the-ppl-who-love-us-the-most-that-end-up-hurting-us/#comment-11 Effie Wed, 11 Nov 2009 03:31:04 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/whiy/?p=10#comment-11 My family is the exact same way! Except my main critic who loves me is my brother. He always tries to 'look out for me', pointing out that I shouldn't be eating all of something. Asking why I'm not exercising, and just not understanding that it is really difficult to combat emotional/binge eating. And I like the idea of being fit for the new year, we've got time, and by the time that 2010 rolls around, it won't know what hit it! Good luck!! My family is the exact same way! Except my main critic who loves me is my brother. He always tries to ‘look out for me’, pointing out that I shouldn’t be eating all of something. Asking why I’m not exercising, and just not understanding that it is really difficult to combat emotional/binge eating.

And I like the idea of being fit for the new year, we’ve got time, and by the time that 2010 rolls around, it won’t know what hit it!

Good luck!!

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