Information Overload.
Uncategorized January 21st, 2009Yes, that is what I have for sure. I have been sick too long, which is letting me watch too much CNN and read too many articles online. I am now convinced the potentially tainted Clif bar I ate has infected me with Salmonella. Nevermind that I have no diarrhea, and that it is the main symptom. I am such a paranoid freak! In my defense, my belly is hurting SO bad. I got dressed in my running clothes today, but haven’t felt up to running quite yet. I hope I get there
Today is my son’s 10th birthday. Man, I am getting so OLD! He got a new bike ($125 later… when did kid bikes get so expensive?!) so if I feel better hopefully we can take a ride together tonight, even if it is only around the neighborhood. I miss our alone time!! He’s such a great kid.
So I have had an issue weighing on my mind since I spoke to my Mom the other night. My little sister is getting engaged Friday. We all know it, but she doesn’t yet. (YAY!!!) So, here’s a little background on my Mom… she was always thin… without doing anything. She was 5′9″ and about 110 pounds. She never exercised and she ate crap. 3 kids later, she was still the same. Then the dreaded 4th kid came. She lost most of the weight (she was like me and gained a TON everytime she was pregnant… we’re talking almost 100 pounds and actually with me she gained OVER 100!) and then it stopped. And not only did she stop losing, she started gaining. And gaining. And before she knew it, she weighed about 300 pounds. And that is how I always remember her. She hated it. HATED it. But, she had no idea how to change it. She would starve herself and lose weight, then go back to normal eating and gain it all back. Then she would repeat the process again. It was horrible. It set a horrible example for us kids… we all have body issues except my brother, who inflicts them upon all the women he dates (ass!!). I think my middle sister had eating disorders. My youngest sister probably did too. I didn’t have enough self control to have one. Although, I do remember going on a pickle only diet once, and I managed 3 pickle only days, which culminated with a pickle green foamy barf fest. YUCK. Anyhow, my Mom kinda gave up trying to lose til a few years ago. She actually started working out, doing aerobics in the house twice a day, and though she was on a severely restricted diet, it was better than what she had eaten in the past. She got down to almost 200 and then over the last 2 years has gained it all back (seriously, you can eat 2 lean cuisines and an apple a day to lose weight, but I’m here to tell you: you will NOT keep your weight off!). So, now that my sister is getting married, my Mom is feeling on insecure and weird because her fiance’s mother is gorgeous. I mean, gorgeous. She is also older than my Mom. I know, ouch. Which brings me back to the beginning… Mom is on another “diet.” And, she was bragging to me about only having consumed 800 calories in the past two days. ARGHHHHHHH I am so frustrated with her! She started at 300 and is already down to 290. For her weight, she should be eating around 2000 calories for a nice loss. But will she listen? No. I try to tell her, but what do -I- know? So, I wonder what the long term effects of this are on her health. I also wonder just how far she’ll go to be thin at the wedding, which could be as early as this December. I’m so worried…
And, in other news, I’m gonna be the Maid of Honor in my sisters wedding! I need to start losing weight!!!
Hope all you chickies are having a great day!

January 21st, 2009 at 5:40 pm
Wow, you’re really in a pickle (sorry, I couldn’t resist) w/your mom. You want to help her but if she’s not willing to accept your help it won’t do any good. Since you’re wanting to lose more, too, for the wedding could it be a project that you work on together? Just an idea.
On the salmonella issue, it’s actually working well for me. There is a Reese’s PB Cup that has been in our cupboard for 2 weeks and I haven’t touched it. If they ever figure out the problem I don’t want to know
January 22nd, 2009 at 2:07 pm
I just read all of this weeks posts except the most current one. My 4 yr old is bugging me to go outside… but I wanted to say I am glad you’re all over the stomach virus or whatever it is. I hope I don’t get it. My kids have been a little sick (low fevers, runny noses, coughs) but not barfing a diareaha. What a mes syou’ve had to deal with. Your new running clothes sound sound great and your 9 min mile run sounds great. I hope I can run again someday, I’m afraid to try it too soon for fear of hurting my knees.
I wish I knew what you could do with your mom, all i can do is listen though. Sorry I am no help. Try not to stress about it too much and hopefully she’ll ask for your opinion, sometime. In the mean time, whens’ the wedding? Wishing you much success before so you can be a “HAWT”er bridesmaid.
And now I’m a little worried about the two CLIF bars I had the past two days, but I guess I would know by now…