One wrong turn needs two right ones
General May 20th, 2008I heard an interesting comment the other day - when we take a wrong turn, we don’t go in the right direction with just one turn in the good direction - it takes two right turns to get back to where we were. With one we are facing the correct way, but with two you are back at the same longitude…
I found the thought to be really helpful. I’ve been on this weight loss road so long that I’ve learned to roll w the punches and not beat myself up too much when I step off the path of the straight and narrow — forgive and move on. I don’t believe in “punishing” a mis-step either, however to have in mind that I need to be “good” not once, but TWICE after a misstep makes sense to me…
I’m currently in a meeting in Brussels where the offerings are more challenging than usual, and the meeting hours pretty brutal, so if I follow this advice I guess I’ll be needing to make “right” turns for the rest of the week to get back to the good place - but we’ll just take each day as it comes and do the best we can.
Just to perk myself up a bit, I listed all the temptations of yesterday afternoon that I did NOT eat : potato salad, pasta salad, leftover sandwiches from lunch, plates of cookies, plates of chocoloates, waffles, eclaires and napoleons, Coke, orange juice, apple juice, croissants.
I practiced feeling hungry and drank glass after glass of water, and made about 6 cups of tea too. We went from 12:00 lunch break until ending the meeting at 7:30pm with all that stuff in the room, and other than lunch I ate just a banana… Dinner at 9:00 pm I couldn’t resist the bread (whole wheat) but did order well and eat reasonably.
May 20th, 2008 at 1:59 pm
Love the comment. It is so true, something like one step forward two steps back….
Wanted you to know that I changed my blog name to Losin it in Paradise. I noticed that someone had the same blog name as me so I changed mine.
May 20th, 2008 at 9:14 pm
You did great! I don’t think I could stay in that room all day and not give in. Pat yourself on the back for your discipline. You’re right about just getting back on track after we fall. If this is going to be a lifestyle, that’s what has to happen. Hang in there!
Sistah Pat
May 21st, 2008 at 2:08 pm
Wow! that’s temptation galore and you were able to ignore it…awesome! I know it’s so hard when it’s staring you in the face and pretty much going “eat me, eat me.” Great job on not succumbing to it. Is it possible for you to pack a snack bar (like a granola bar or something) with you so you can eat it while others are eating the unhealthy food? Maybe it might help you thru the meeting
till you break for lunch. Keep up the good work!
May 21st, 2008 at 3:41 pm
I think you did brilliant not giving into temptation. I think we all beat ourselves up so much that we forget the great things we manage… and thats one of them
Hugs xx
May 25th, 2008 at 5:20 am
I totally agree! Every time I go off my diet and eat a huge meal and skip excerise say for 3 days, it takes me at least 5 days of good eating and excerise to get back to my original weight! So I figured that if I keep taking 1 step forward and 2 steps back, I’ll never get to where I want to be!
Hope your bug is nothing too serious and you will get back to healthy eating and excerise soon!