Okay, now I can summarize the problem of my overeating in a nutshell.  I cannot do anything that makes me feel good (except eat), because I spend morning and night taking care of other people:  my two children and husband.  At 10 pm or so I then get to go to sleep for a couple of hours until my 9 month old starts crying, then get her back to sleep then I can go to sleep for another two hours and so on through the night.  Then get up at 6am and start my day again.

I eat because that is my only release.