The Art of Health

Non Scale Victories - NSV’s

Something we see discussed a lot on the 3FC forum are “NSVs”.  NSV stands for non scale victories - those little accomplishments and signs of progress that have nothing to do with that number on the scale.

To me, these are important because it is easy to get discouraged and find an excuse to give up if that number on the scale isn’t moving fast enough or not moving at all!  Also, I need to focus on the other benefits of staying on my plan, the benefits that are not scale related.  For this to really become a life change for me, I need to remind myself of all the reasons this way of living is going to be a positive thing for me.  I tend to be impatient with myself and with life, too, so if I can take time to count & appreciate all the ways that things are getting better for me, it helps me stay motivated and committed.

So…even though the scale has been pretty good to me so far, here are some of my recent NSVs that I am grateful for today!

1.) Being able to go to my two favorite grocery stores and walk right past the foods that I know I eat too much of without putting them in my cart.

2.) Feeling that “empty” feeling in my gut - being able to breath deep and not feel that my stomach is constricting my lungs from fully expanding.

3.) Staying on plan for five weeks!

And last but not least —

4.) Yesterday, I grabbed a pair of size 18 jeans I had never taken the tags off of.  I had bought them in a hurry without trying them on a few months ago and they were too tight.   When I took them out yesterday, I noticed they were not misses jeans but something called “JUNIOR PLUS” skinny jeans and the size was actually 17/18.  Even more reason why they had not fit me a few months ago.  Well, yesterday, I pulled them on and they FIT! And NOT like a girdle but like jeans are supposed to! Zipped up perfectly buttoned perfectly, although that top waistband is making me a little “muffin-toppy”, I blame that on the “JUNIOR” styling.  But they fit they fit they fit!  With a long loose top and my boots tucked in (the “skinny jean” leg was perfect for that)  YAY!  I had an outfit for going out in the snow.

Wow. for the first time in five years, I feel like I can really do this.  And I’m soooo looking forward to making my life better and getting out from under the self-induced pain.  There are enough painful things I can’t change - today I ask for the strength to put one foot in front of the other and change the things I can.

Food Rules

I saw this article on Huffington Post.  It’s a list of anti-cancer food rules, concept based on Michael Pollan’s book Food Rules.  I think these are great healthy eating rules for fighting not just cancer but obesity and ill-health in general.

FOOD RULES

1. Go retro: Your main course should be 80 percent vegetables, 20 percent animal protein, like it was in the old days. Opt for the opposite of the quarter pounder topped with a token leaf of iceberg lettuce and an anemic tomato slice. Meat should be used sparingly for taste, as when it used to be scarce, and should not be the focus of the meal.

2. Mix and match your vegetables: Vary the vegetables you eat from one meal to the next, or mix them together — broccoli is an effective anticancer food, and is even more effective when combined with tomato sauce, onions or garlic. Get in the habit of adding onions, garlic or leeks to all your dishes as you cook.

3. Go organic: Choose organic foods whenever possible, but remember it’s always better to eat broccoli that’s been exposed to pesticide than to not eat broccoli at all (the same applies to any other anticancer vegetable).

4. Spice it up: Add turmeric (with black pepper) when cooking (delicious in salad dressings!). This yellow spice is the most powerful natural anti-inflammatory agent. Remember to add Mediterranean herbs to your food: thyme, oregano, basil, rosemary, marjoram, mint, etc. They don’t just add flavor, they can also help reduce the growth of cancer cells.

5. Skip the potato: Potatoes raise blood sugar, which can feed inflammation and cancer growth. They also contain high levels of pesticide residue (to the point that most potato farmers I know don’t eat their own grown potatoes).

6. Go fish: Eat fish two or three times a week - sardines, mackerel, and anchovies have less mercury and PCBs than bigger fish like tuna. Avoid swordfish and shark, which the FDA says pregnant women should not eat because they contain a high concentration of contaminants.

7. Remember not all eggs are created equal: Choose only omega-3 eggs, or don’t eat the yolks. Hens are now fed on mostly corn and soybeans, and their eggs contain 20 times more pro-inflammatory omega-6 fatty acids than cell-growth regulating omega-3s.

8. Change your oil: Use only olive and canola oil in cooking and salad dressings. Go through your kitchen cabinets and throw out your soybean, corn and sunflower oils. (And no, you can’t give them to your neighbors or your relatives… They’re much too rich in omega-6 fatty acids!)

9. Say “Brown is beautiful”: Eat your grains whole and mixed (wheat with oats, barley, spelt, flax, etc.) and favor organic whole grains when possible since pesticides tend to accumulate on whole grains. Avoid refined, white flour (used in bagels, muffins, sandwich bread, buns, etc.) whenever possible, and eat white pasta only al dente.

10. Keep sweets down to fruits: Cut down on sugar by avoiding sweetened sodas and fruit juices, and skipping dessert or replacing it with fruit (especially stone fruits and berries) after most meals. Read the labels carefully, and steer clear of products that list any type of sugar (including brown sugar, corn syrup, etc.) in the first three ingredients. If you have an incorrigible sweet tooth, try a few squares of dark chocolate containing more than 70% cocoa.

11. Go green: Instead of coffee or black tea, drink three cups of green tea per day. Use decaffeinated green tea if it gets you too wired. Regular consumption of green tea has been linked to a significant reduction in the risk for developing cancer.

12. Make room for exceptions. What matters is what you do on a daily basis, not the occasional treat.

NON FOOD RULES

1. Get physical: Make time to exercise, be it walking, dancing or running. Aim for 30 minutes of physical activity at least 5 days a week. This can be as easy as just walking part of the way to the office, or the grocery store. A dog is often a better walking partner than an exercise buddy. Choose an activity you enjoy; if you’re having fun, you’re more likely to stick with it.

2. Let the sun shine in: Try to get at least 20 minutes of daily sun exposure (torso, arms and legs) without sunscreen, preferably at noon in the summer (but take care to avoid sunburns!). This will boost your body’s natural production of Vitamin D. As an alternative: discuss the option of taking a Vitamin D3 supplement with your doctor.

3. Banish bad chemicals: Avoid exposure to common household contaminants. You should air our your dry-cleaning for two hours before storing or wearing it; use organic cleaning products (or wear gloves); don’t heat liquids or food in hard plastics; avoid cosmetics with parabens and phthalates; don’t use chemical pesticides in your house or garden; replace your scratched Teflon pans; filter your tap water (or used bottled water) if you live in a contaminated area; don’t keep your cell phone close to you when it is turned on.

4. Reach out (and touch someone!): Reach out to at least two friends for support (logistical and emotional) during times of stress, even if it’s through the internet. But if they’re within arms reach, go ahead and hug them, often!

5. Remember to breathe: Learn a basic breathing relaxation technique to let out some steam whenever you start to feel stressed.

6. Get involved: Find out how you can best give something back to your local community, then give it.

7. Cultivate happiness like a garden: Make sure you do one thing you love for yourself on most days (it doesn’t have to take long!).

You can fInd more Anticancer info at: www.anticancerbook.com

Back to the future

I started this journey 1/20/2010. I’ve been living in a state of ill health both emotionally and physically for about five years now.  In this five year period, I’ve made numerous attempts to lose weight and establish some healthy habits but some of the chaotic/stressful circumstances of my life at the time seemed to always interfere and throw me off track. Now, I have some serenity in my life and I finally reached a moment of clarity and decided to start taking some positive action steps to improve my health and YES my appearance, too.  Everything is intertwined.  My appearance makes me isolate, gives me an excuse not to do things - and feeling isolated with no social life makes me hold on to eating for comfort and enjoyment.

I want my old self back.  I actually feel like a different person now.  When I think of the things I used to do, how I used to “be” in the world - I’m not her anymore and I marvel at what I was.   I want to be me again.

I pulled up a digital pic of the “old me” what I consider the “real me” the ME I was for more than forty years before I got buried by the avalanche.  Here I am, sans face: