starting over, almost 40, 320 lbs, the heaviest I’ve ever been

getting back on track

ok, maybe this sounds crazy, but for the last week I have been easing back into the healthier eating lifestyle like it was a hot bath.  One toe in…….. ok maybe now the other toe (etc)

this weekend I replaced the scale.  It was a good motivator for me when it wasn’t making me nuts.  The good news I only gained about 5lbs during the month and half or so that I was taking a break.  The bad news is I gained 5 lbs in less than 2 months!  do you realize that if I kept that up I would gain 30 lbs in a year!  In only a few years I would weigh 400lbs - I don’t want to do that.

Its obvious I’m not ready to stop at this weight.  That’s what was weighing on me.  Since I stopped walking the stairs have become difficult and I have had a couple bouts of late night indigestion - I don’t care for that.

well, not gonna spend all day on this note - so more later

new starting weight: 308

ok, no recriminations

I’ve been gone about a month and I got off track.  It was hot, I was hurt, it happens.  By I like that metaphor that if you’re walking somewhere important and you realize that you’ve gone the wrong way for awhile do you say “well, that’s it, guess I better go home, to heck with that important thing” or do you fix your course and keep on going, because its important.

I binged, I’m discouraged

I don’t know what happened - I was trying to listen to my body, I was so hungry that I just kept eating and eating.  I would eat a portion and then wait to see if I felt full - but I still felt hungry!  It was the weirdest binge I ever had.  I ate 5 servings of chicken salad (1500 calories just for that) and nearly a pint of strawberries …… I just felt so empty.

the only thing I can think of is that maybe I was mistaking thirsty for hungry….. I don’t know, right now I am really questioning if I actually am motivated to this.  Why am I trying to do this?  Is it for a certain size?  Is it for public acceptance?  Maybe I don’t care about sizes and numbers.  I already feel much better than I did - maybe that is enough……. I have to think about it for awhile.

my body is fighting me

My body is fighting the weight loss.  I am achey and tired and hungry all the time.  I’m retaining water and I don’t want to exercise and I’m very cranky - I guess that means I’m doing something right.

sorry for all the mini posts, I’m just trying to do something constructive instead of eat.

feeling discouraged

I know its not my official WI yet, but I hopped on the scale for a mid week peek and it is showing the same number as Sunday … and it made me feel a little discouraged.  I know that it may yet pick up before Sunday - it is only Wednesday after all, but I did so well the last couple of days, even walking when I really didn’t want to, that I guess I was hoping to see it trending downward.  Oh well … nothing to do, but keep going, these things happen.

Really sore this morning

I just ache all over.  My hips hurt so much I had to get out of bed before the alarm went off because I could not lay on them anymore.  My knees hurt, my legs hurt, my back hurts.  I can’t remember being this sore for awhile and I don’t understand.  I only did a mile yesterday.  It was tough - very hot, but just to Target and back - I have walked it before.  Its hard, but nothing that should have made me feel like this.  I feel like my body is really resisting these changes - making me exhausted and sore.  I was so tired yesterday I took a 2 hour nap and now this.

I am gonna try not to give up.  I took some ibuprofen and I’m gonna stretch.  We’ll see how today goes.

I guess I needed a nap

I guess I was feeling overwhelmed, to many things on my plate - to many changes.

I took a nap and I feel a little better.

(tantrum) I DONT WANT TO EXERCISE ANYMORE!!!!

I am SO tired of getting up and pushing myself to exercise!  I am sick of it! sick of it!  I am tired of being sweaty, of stinking!  I am tired of my knee popping in and out and my back and butt hurting!  I am tired of hills seeming like mountains and people looking at me and laughing at me!  I am tired of being beet red and pathetic!  I am tired of being exhausted!

stoopid mile!  I hate you!

Not feeling motivated to day, gotta push through

post holiday weekend malaise I guess.  Just not feeling like exercising.  I think I also feel overwhelmed.  I have all these things staring me in the face that need to get done.  Housework, DD exercise plan, my exercise plan, preparing for school in the fall, money troubles.  sigh.  I get to anxious thinking about the bigger picture.  I need to focus on the smaller goals and just get through today.

weird fear of success/failure

Since this is where I go to post feelings so I don’t bottle them up and then eat myself silly, I’m gonna try talking about this again.

I am afraid.  I am afraid this is all a trick and that I’m not really losing weight and that I’m not gonna lose anymore because I haven’t been a super strict crazy exercising person. Being that super strict person always makes me nuts and I can’t keep it up for long, so I fall off the wagon, binge and gain more weight back then I lost - and that has been my pattern for YEARS.  That to strict/deny, binge, fail/give up self-hate pattern is what I’m used to.

So this time, I’m trying to make reasonable changes.  Smaller portions, but what I want in moderation.  Some snacks that aren’t good for me.  Walking to places I want to go, instead of just walking.  It has really been great.  I am averaging 2lbs lost a week - but it doesn’t feel like a diet, so it feels like a trick.  I know that I have made changes, but I can’t seem to feel it somehow.  When is this gonna feel real?  I don’t know, maybe when I look different enough for people to notice or I am in really different sizes.

I’ll think about it some more, right now I’m emotionally exhausted and I’m gonna nap.