Good evening ladies. Where to start?
Every moment of my day is earmarked for something, I have NO downtime whatsoever. And I thought I was busy before? Pfft! I’m still enjoying college very much, but the classes are sooo time consuming. Which I knew, I just figured I would magically work it out somehow. And I will.
I ate like, horrendously this weekend. Not quantity, just quality. Or lack there of. 5 Guys, cheescake, etc. Did a lot of school work, finished week 1 in one piece. I did take a break on Saturday to take the kids on a hike, and another on Sunday to take them to an orchard/farm. I managed to consume a hot dog, 3 cider donuts (small, but STILL! argh) and most of a pc of pumpkin pie there. Geez.
I just finished Get Chiseled. I just had to tell myself some things can wait, I need to exercise. And I did. Go me! But tomorrow I have work, schoolwork, and a board meeting, AND prepping for Wednesday… Wed is a short day at work because I am driving down to pick up my mom so she can watch kids for me Thurs; Thursday is an HR Conference in Manhattan … so, 14 hour day there … Friday, work, taking kids to city, and home Saturday where I will do schoolwork the remainder of the weekend.
Oh yeah, I suppose somewhere in there I need to find time to shower, laundry, clean house, cook, etc.
I am a little sad tonight … just thinking of CFF and not missing her specifically (that itself is pretty sad) but just missing the fact that I had someone I considered a BFF for so many years, since I was a kid … and not having that anymore. Well, I have SBFF and she is wonderful, but there is distance between us (physical, lol) and it isn’t the same. I don’t really have any close girlfriends here. Not that I have spare time either, I guess. But it is sort of sad. It hit me that we do trick or treating together every year .. and what if we don’t this year? How do I explain that to my kids? I guess that is what I am afraid of more … I don’t want them to suffer because of our broken friendship. We still IM here or there, but it isn’t the same.
Okay, I am glad I made myself check in. Need to shower. No more food tonight. I need to plan the rest of the week. This isn’t a good week … breakfast and lunch at the conference Thurs, and dinner on the way home, then Friday also dinner out at night and Saturday (staying at R’s, coming home Sat).
I am rambling and all over the place. It feels nice to just write without obsessing over details like essays … lol
laura705
September 21st, 2009 at 9:26 pm
Whew, that’s a busy week! You’re a good planner and juggler!
majestichollyhock
September 21st, 2009 at 10:25 pm
Hey, you are a super busy chicka!!
My formerBBF has kids the same age as mine anf as babies and up to age 5-ish we did everything together. I have tons of photos. The kids still have memories and ask the odd question but they never missed them- just went on with their lives.
I grieved the friendship and still do 5-6 years later. I know I am better for it but still….
When the kid ask why, i keep it simple- people change and grow , have different interests at different times, life just evolves that way.
moonfairy
September 22nd, 2009 at 11:57 am
cider donuts? sounds delish. i’ve never seen any but i’d sure try one if i had the chance.
i find i’m busy with school too. especially with my english course b/c it’s two nights a week. then i’m finishing off the hr course so that’s overlapping. add in home life and there’s no time for anything else.
kotapaint
September 22nd, 2009 at 3:18 pm
Ohhhhh, donuts, burgers, and pie? Sounds great. Oops.
It is nice to have a sister like friend to do everything with…until you realize you do everything dn the friend is just coasting. Hrrrrumph. With everything so busy now, it’ll be tough to make time for new friend(s). School is time consuming on top of everything else.
kotapaint
September 26th, 2009 at 8:46 am
Hope your week wasn’t too crazy.