Comments on: Tuesday http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/2009/07/28/tuesday-2/ 100 Pounds Gone Forever Fri, 25 May 2012 04:22:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: TawnyaInControl http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/2009/07/28/tuesday-2/#comment-681 TawnyaInControl Tue, 28 Jul 2009 23:10:21 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/?p=172#comment-681 I'm glad you're beginning to like your therapist. That will help in learning your new tools. I love tools. Tools help us to heal. I like healing. LOL... Life has hard points, so I'm learning. There isn't a handbook other than the Bible, and I don't always feel like reading that. I love Jesus and The Word, just don't like reading it. Hahaha... When I was in school, I learned under some of the neatest Ph.D's. One of my favorite female professors said "The best therapists are our friends". ...love heals. :) We all love you here at 3fc. It's nice to be reminded of our blessings. We need that too, I believe. You have been so good to me through your comments. YOU are MY blessing. :) *hugs* I’m glad you’re beginning to like your therapist. That will help in learning your new tools. I love tools. Tools help us to heal. I like healing. LOL…

Life has hard points, so I’m learning. There isn’t a handbook other than the Bible, and I don’t always feel like reading that. I love Jesus and The Word, just don’t like reading it. Hahaha…

When I was in school, I learned under some of the neatest Ph.D’s. One of my favorite female professors said “The best therapists are our friends”. …love heals. :) We all love you here at 3fc. It’s nice to be reminded of our blessings. We need that too, I believe.

You have been so good to me through your comments. YOU are MY blessing. :) *hugs*

]]> By: loosingme http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/2009/07/28/tuesday-2/#comment-680 loosingme Tue, 28 Jul 2009 20:56:31 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/?p=172#comment-680 sorry I missed you yesterday. Baby eggplant growing in the backyard....my GOD girl, you are soooo blessed! LOL JK. Linda really has a point about the volunteer work. So rewarding. HUGS! sorry I missed you yesterday. Baby eggplant growing in the backyard….my GOD girl, you are soooo blessed! LOL JK. Linda really has a point about the volunteer work. So rewarding. HUGS!

]]> By: lindat http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/2009/07/28/tuesday-2/#comment-679 lindat Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:06:51 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/?p=172#comment-679 Seeing the blessing is a good start. May I also recommend volunteer work? Really SEEING how others live that are in need has been a tremendous gift to me in my life.. the crosses I bear are nothing compared to them Seeing the blessing is a good start. May I also recommend volunteer work? Really SEEING how others live that are in need has been a tremendous gift to me in my life.. the crosses I bear are nothing compared to them

]]> By: laura705 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/2009/07/28/tuesday-2/#comment-678 laura705 Tue, 28 Jul 2009 17:13:01 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/?p=172#comment-678 I'm glad you are seeing all the blessings in your life, and I hope your therapy provides you with tools to deal with the body image issues. I’m glad you are seeing all the blessings in your life, and I hope your therapy provides you with tools to deal with the body image issues.

]]> By: kotapaint http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/2009/07/28/tuesday-2/#comment-677 kotapaint Tue, 28 Jul 2009 15:41:24 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/?p=172#comment-677 Re note on my post: I knew it was tootsie rolls because you wrote that you reached for another! Wish I could claim to clarivoyant (sp?) but I'm not. lol Changes produce anxiety of differing degrees for me. Even good change like starting school, moving, therapy, etc., so it makes perfect sense to me that you had tootsie rolls...:) Takes one to know one and I'm looking in the mirror when I read your post! You aren't selfish if you set boundaries. When you first start setting them, some folks will react, because they aren't used to the boundaries and perhaps will think something has happened between you when really, you must need some space for yourself. When I started setting boundaries, I blamed it on getting older...just couldn't take all the hurry, scurry anymore, needed to slow down--enjoy life, my kids, my home, etc. Don't know if that helps at all, but there it is! Re note on my post: I knew it was tootsie rolls because you wrote that you reached for another! Wish I could claim to clarivoyant (sp?) but I’m not. lol

Changes produce anxiety of differing degrees for me. Even good change like starting school, moving, therapy, etc., so it makes perfect sense to me that you had tootsie rolls…:)

Takes one to know one and I’m looking in the mirror when I read your post!

You aren’t selfish if you set boundaries. When you first start setting them, some folks will react, because they aren’t used to the boundaries and perhaps will think something has happened between you when really, you must need some space for yourself. When I started setting boundaries, I blamed it on getting older…just couldn’t take all the hurry, scurry anymore, needed to slow down–enjoy life, my kids, my home, etc. Don’t know if that helps at all, but there it is!

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