Comments on: Doesn’t feel like a Friday

By: fatgirlagain

fatgirlagain — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 13:31:17 +0000

HUGGGS I am so sorry about your friend , have fun with the extra kids around!

By: majestichollyhock

majestichollyhock — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 01:18:05 +0000

(((hugs))))

By: laura705

laura705 — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 19:52:08 +0000

Do try and phone your friend if you are allowed.

By: espencer

espencer — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 19:21:19 +0000

Gosh, Kel, I’m so sorry. I missed your post yesterday. It must be so so hard. You just have to keep reminding yourself that she is safe now and doing the best thing she possibly could have. Call the sister!
And go on the date!
Find her a cute little blank card and drop it in the mail today. Only 2 hrs away, she should have it tomorrow or monday at the latest and you will know that she knows you are thinking of her.

By: loosingme

loosingme — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 18:56:35 +0000

LOL….dd and ds usually start school at 7:30 am! ds gets the bus at 7am…dd drives herself. LOL DD gets to go in late this week only. because if you pass all the tests as a sophomore, you don’t need to retake them as a junior or a senior. so while those kids that need another shot at passing get a chance, those that have already passed, don’t need to come in until 10 this week.

By: ruthxxx

ruthxxx — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 18:45:44 +0000

Hugs to you and your friend, Kelly. I have a similar situation - a guy suffering from PTSD and he was not allowed visitors for a while. It’ll be hard but I’m sure you can keep in touch with cards or phone calls if allowed.
Try to carry on with the “fun” things in your life and try to avoid telling your other friend if you can as it sounds like she has a real blabbermouth mother. (I stopped telling mine anything when I turned 18 so it was never a problem!)

By: loosingme

loosingme — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 16:34:46 +0000

agreed with Linda. Call the hospital and ask. Call the sister too. Not a pest, just concerned is all.

And yes, go out on the date. You seem to enjoy his company, and he makes you laugh. Might be a good distraction. I am sure this situation is weighing heavy on your mind and consuming your thoughts….being with “BOB”( thats what wer are calling him…right? LOL) will be a nice vaca from all of the thinking and over thinking your are surely doing with your friend.

GL with the kids tonite! LOL HUGS!

By: lindat

lindat — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 16:04:04 +0000

All you can doi is call the hospital and ask. They may not permit it for the first 48-72 hours if they feel a visitor would disrupt things. If she is threatening suicide, even a well meaning visitor might not be the best thing for her right now. That is up to the docs.. so call.

Please do go on your date. Just like eating when you are stressed, staying at home and fretting is NOT going to help your friend