Comments on: Title http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/2009/03/19/title/ 100 Pounds Gone Forever Fri, 25 May 2012 03:49:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: loosingme http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/2009/03/19/title/#comment-66 loosingme Thu, 19 Mar 2009 19:41:38 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/?p=11#comment-66 well, I totally get the 41 not married and no kids thing, being weird. But there is probably an upside to him being confident enough to not have settled for someone because everyone else around him did. I guess the real question is....when he does find the right one, will he want to start a family of his own? Hmmmmm.... But for now, he sounds like he is fun, and you are enjoying each others company...and isn't that what dating is all about anyway? the only way to know if someone is your soulmate, is to get to know them.... :) I like the new title. I think it kind of touches on what Linda was talking about yesterday about being committed, and I totally agreed with your response. Besides, how can you find a man, if you aren't happy with YOU? ya know. I think it needs to start there, and I think you have finally gotten to the point where you are liking yourself Kelly...and I think that is just GREAT!!!!!!!!!! well, I totally get the 41 not married and no kids thing, being weird. But there is probably an upside to him being confident enough to not have settled for someone because everyone else around him did. I guess the real question is….when he does find the right one, will he want to start a family of his own? Hmmmmm….
But for now, he sounds like he is fun, and you are enjoying each others company…and isn’t that what dating is all about anyway? the only way to know if someone is your soulmate, is to get to know them…. :)

I like the new title. I think it kind of touches on what Linda was talking about yesterday about being committed, and I totally agreed with your response.

Besides, how can you find a man, if you aren’t happy with YOU? ya know. I think it needs to start there, and I think you have finally gotten to the point where you are liking yourself Kelly…and I think that is just GREAT!!!!!!!!!!

]]> By: Kelly http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/2009/03/19/title/#comment-65 Kelly Thu, 19 Mar 2009 17:20:46 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/?p=11#comment-65 Sorry Linda! But here is my thinking - it IS different for a man to be never married with no kids than a woman. It is HARDER for a woman to find a suitable partner out there than it is for men, I absolutely believe that. I do think it is not unusual for a woman to be in that situation, as much as a man - unless thats how he wanted to be. And I only said that because every one of my IRL friends have asked right off the bat WHY he was never married/no kids - they all thought it was weird, I assumed you all would too. LOL! Just seems like there are so many quality women out there, and SO FEW quality men. Sorry Linda! But here is my thinking - it IS different for a man to be never married with no kids than a woman. It is HARDER for a woman to find a suitable partner out there than it is for men, I absolutely believe that. I do think it is not unusual for a woman to be in that situation, as much as a man - unless thats how he wanted to be. And I only said that because every one of my IRL friends have asked right off the bat WHY he was never married/no kids - they all thought it was weird, I assumed you all would too. LOL!

Just seems like there are so many quality women out there, and SO FEW quality men.

]]> By: tkt117 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/2009/03/19/title/#comment-64 tkt117 Thu, 19 Mar 2009 17:17:44 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/?p=11#comment-64 My dh was 38 when we met... never married no kids... same reason. I actually found it refreshing. He was self sufficient and didn't have as much baggage as a formerly married with kids. LOL! Now he is 48 with two young kids. He likes to act shell shocked, but I told him that he had his playboy days when he was younger... now it is time for him to be a grown up. I hope all goes well! Good Luck! My dh was 38 when we met… never married no kids… same reason. I actually found it refreshing. He was self sufficient and didn’t have as much baggage as a formerly married with kids. LOL! Now he is 48 with two young kids. He likes to act shell shocked, but I told him that he had his playboy days when he was younger… now it is time for him to be a grown up.

I hope all goes well! Good Luck!

]]> By: lindat http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/2009/03/19/title/#comment-63 lindat Thu, 19 Mar 2009 16:02:26 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/kelly/?p=11#comment-63 Now WHY is 41 and no kids and never married weird? It's that kind of assumption that really tweaks me. I wish society would quit telling us we are "weird" if we don't conform to the married by X age and 2.5 kids. Rant off I hope things work out with you and Bob. He sounds like a nice guy. You could change it to - " WIP - K311y " Now WHY is 41 and no kids and never married weird? It’s that kind of assumption that really tweaks me. I wish society would quit telling us we are “weird” if we don’t conform to the married by X age and 2.5 kids. Rant off

I hope things work out with you and Bob. He sounds like a nice guy.

You could change it to - ” WIP - K311y “

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