Comments on: Relapse http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/07/29/relapse/ A woman looking for herself Fri, 25 May 2012 00:54:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: soclose http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/07/29/relapse/#comment-442 soclose Fri, 01 Aug 2008 02:55:37 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/07/29/relapse/#comment-442 Listen to Annie, what she said is soooo true---read it again and again when you need to. A BIG hug to you today. We ache with you; we've all been there and know it's hard Ini. YOU will be fine in the end!!!! Listen to Annie, what she said is soooo true—read it again and again when you need to. A BIG hug to you today. We ache with you; we’ve all been there and know it’s hard Ini. YOU will be fine in the end!!!!

]]> By: islandgrl http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/07/29/relapse/#comment-441 islandgrl Fri, 01 Aug 2008 00:00:28 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/07/29/relapse/#comment-441 Anngirl said it all, only much better than I ever could. True words..... Anngirl said it all, only much better than I ever could. True words…..

]]> By: ellabella http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/07/29/relapse/#comment-440 ellabella Wed, 30 Jul 2008 10:17:38 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/07/29/relapse/#comment-440 I am so very overwhelmed by the sheer beauty of Anngirl's "comment" - it hardly seems like a comment at all - more like the wise and wonderful words of a shaman or saint, or at the very least, of a very damned good psychologist who happens to love her patient very much. I can't even begin to approach Annie's depth - just know how much we ALL care, and how much we ALL want for you to be happy, Ini. And you will be - in time. Love, Z I am so very overwhelmed by the sheer beauty of Anngirl’s “comment” - it hardly seems like a comment at all - more like the wise and wonderful words of a shaman or saint, or at the very least, of a very damned good psychologist who happens to love her patient very much.
I can’t even begin to approach Annie’s depth - just know how much we ALL care, and how much we ALL want for you to be happy, Ini. And you will be - in time.
Love,
Z

]]> By: anngirl http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/07/29/relapse/#comment-439 anngirl Wed, 30 Jul 2008 02:34:14 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/07/29/relapse/#comment-439 Hugs ms. ini - lots of warm, loving and rejuvenating hugs for you. You're right - you tread water for what seems a really decent amount of time and then 'whooshhhhhh' the undercurrent catches up with you. It's ok - it's part of the grieving and recovering process. My friend today who was heartbroken by her boyfriend of 3 years said to me today, 'When does it end. I want it to be over now!' pain sucks. suffering sucks. Goodness knows I dwelled in sorrow when my relationship ended and hung onto it like a safety blanket for a good 3 years after it was over. Missing, wondering, wishing, being angry, crying, etc. But you know Ini - it didn't have to be so long and so strong. I stifled myself so many times when I should have just let it flow in my own space & time. Love yourself Ini - you are a true gift and you will love again - have a family and raise children who will also be joys to the world as you are.... be kind to yourself, hang in there, it's almost over. A new journey awaits you Ini. :) We walk that path together darlin' - you can always lean on us ;) xoxoxoxoxooxoxoxox Hugs ms. ini - lots of warm, loving and rejuvenating hugs for you. You’re right - you tread water for what seems a really decent amount of time and then ‘whooshhhhhh’ the undercurrent catches up with you.

It’s ok - it’s part of the grieving and recovering process. My friend today who was heartbroken by her boyfriend of 3 years said to me today, ‘When does it end. I want it to be over now!’

pain sucks. suffering sucks. Goodness knows I dwelled in sorrow when my relationship ended and hung onto it like a safety blanket for a good 3 years after it was over. Missing, wondering, wishing, being angry, crying, etc. But you know Ini - it didn’t have to be so long and so strong. I stifled myself so many times when I should have just let it flow in my own space & time.

Love yourself Ini - you are a true gift and you will love again - have a family and raise children who will also be joys to the world as you are….

be kind to yourself,
hang in there,
it’s almost over.

A new journey awaits you Ini. :) We walk that path together darlin’ - you can always lean on us ;)

xoxoxoxoxooxoxoxox

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