Comments on: Tomorrow http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/ A woman looking for herself Fri, 25 May 2012 00:46:53 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: soclose http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-398 soclose Fri, 20 Jun 2008 04:06:16 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-398 OK Time to check in...... OK Time to check in……

]]> By: lodyangel http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-396 lodyangel Fri, 06 Jun 2008 04:31:34 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-396 I love the essay idea! Every woman needs that. We spend so much time comparing ourselves to others that we lose what is great about oursleves. You my friend have a great idea. And Annie is right! You are beautiful and sweet and resilient! Don't forget it! Could your Mom be a little jealous that she is losing her little boy to another woman? I know it sounds weird, but i have known plenty of women who have a hard time becoming teh #2 woman in their son's lives. I am glad you are back! (((HUGS))) I love the essay idea! Every woman needs that. We spend so much time comparing ourselves to others that we lose what is great about oursleves. You my friend have a great idea. And Annie is right! You are beautiful and sweet and resilient! Don’t forget it!

Could your Mom be a little jealous that she is losing her little boy to another woman? I know it sounds weird, but i have known plenty of women who have a hard time becoming teh #2 woman in their son’s lives.

I am glad you are back!

(((HUGS)))

]]> By: round http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-395 round Wed, 04 Jun 2008 18:11:11 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-395 I've missed you ini and am really glad you're back. Sounds like your brother's wedding is going to be a wonderful event - can't wait to hear more and see pics. I find the positive writings idea really intriguing. I do think there is something helpful in making yourself focus on the positives just to help your mind realize they are there. Hugs to you! I’ve missed you ini and am really glad you’re back. Sounds like your brother’s wedding is going to be a wonderful event - can’t wait to hear more and see pics.

I find the positive writings idea really intriguing. I do think there is something helpful in making yourself focus on the positives just to help your mind realize they are there.

Hugs to you!

]]> By: tjnorth http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-394 tjnorth Wed, 04 Jun 2008 03:19:48 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-394 I know it is hard to allow yourself to come back from such a bad place - here is an image I have of myself that I remind myself of when I am in a dark time. It is a bit silly, but I think of myself as a 'rubber barbie' - no matter how flat I get squashed, eventually I bounce right back up on my feet. Sometimes in my life it has taken a long time though. But as ann says, you are resilient. Even when you feel so flat and deflated, you are not really, it is just a pause while you gather yourself together to bounce back up. Also I do the same thing! Writing down positive thoughts, and it really does help. Before I go to bed I make myself write down three things that happened during the day that made me feel good. Even trivial things like, breakfast was delicious, or, the lady in the cafeteria made me laugh. It reminds me that there are moments to be thankful for each day. I know it is hard to allow yourself to come back from such a bad place - here is an image I have of myself that I remind myself of when I am in a dark time. It is a bit silly, but I think of myself as a ‘rubber barbie’ - no matter how flat I get squashed, eventually I bounce right back up on my feet. Sometimes in my life it has taken a long time though. But as ann says, you are resilient. Even when you feel so flat and deflated, you are not really, it is just a pause while you gather yourself together to bounce back up.

Also I do the same thing! Writing down positive thoughts, and it really does help. Before I go to bed I make myself write down three things that happened during the day that made me feel good. Even trivial things like, breakfast was delicious, or, the lady in the cafeteria made me laugh. It reminds me that there are moments to be thankful for each day.

]]> By: ellabella http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-393 ellabella Tue, 03 Jun 2008 22:45:59 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-393 Very, very glad to see you back and sharing your thoughts with us, dear Ini. It sounds like much is happening in your life right now, and that you are doing well with all of it. Mostly well, anyway, which is what counts. Oh, perhaps Islandgrl will share here thoughts about Eckhart Tolle and his philosophy with us. It sounds very interesting. Much love, Z Very, very glad to see you back and sharing your thoughts with us, dear Ini. It sounds like much is happening in your life right now, and that you are doing well with all of it. Mostly well, anyway, which is what counts. Oh, perhaps Islandgrl will share here thoughts about Eckhart Tolle and his philosophy with us. It sounds very interesting.
Much love,
Z

]]> By: rubyjean http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-392 rubyjean Tue, 03 Jun 2008 09:12:57 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-392 I am so happy to see you again! I was thinking maybe you were busy with wedding plans since you had mentioned them before. Hope your mom gets over her feelings - special wishes sent out to the stars for that one! Your idea to boost your confidence by writing positive things is WONDERFUL. I have been feeling like my confidence has up and left me too, so maybe I'll take a leaf out of your book. I can't wait to see the wedding pictures! Love and Hugs and All Good Things to you Ini.... and also to your mom and brother and new sister-in-law RubyJean I am so happy to see you again! I was thinking maybe you were busy with wedding plans since you had mentioned them before. Hope your mom gets over her feelings - special wishes sent out to the stars for that one!
Your idea to boost your confidence by writing positive things is WONDERFUL. I have been feeling like my confidence has up and left me too, so maybe I’ll take a leaf out of your book.
I can’t wait to see the wedding pictures!
Love and Hugs and All Good Things to you Ini….
and also to your mom and brother and new sister-in-law
RubyJean

]]> By: islandgrl http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-391 islandgrl Tue, 03 Jun 2008 03:39:00 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-391 I thought since you are into self help books, this is a good one. I heard about it thru good old Oprah :) It is called the "Power of NOW" By Eckhart Tolle It is really good, I am also reading his latest "A New Earth" also excellent So glad you are back Ini, your writing is an inspiration to us all I thought since you are into self help books, this is a good one. I heard about it thru good old Oprah :)
It is called the “Power of NOW” By Eckhart Tolle
It is really good, I am also reading his latest “A New Earth” also excellent
So glad you are back Ini, your writing is an inspiration to us all

]]> By: soclose http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-389 soclose Tue, 03 Jun 2008 01:01:39 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-389 I am so glad you came back to us. You sound well. We missed you. I am so glad you came back to us. You sound well. We missed you.

]]> By: anngirl http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-388 anngirl Mon, 02 Jun 2008 21:29:24 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/06/02/tomorrow/#comment-388 Hi Iniya - Guess what you're already BEAUTIFUL, you're a wonderful writer and you do quite well at your career. So I suppose your goal is to be even more luminous than you already are, an even more prolific writer and a damn hot shot engineer! All noble pursuits :) I like your journaling idea - I think it's really worthy and a great way to acknowledge what you treasure about yourself. make sure one of your headings is RESILIENCY! You are strong Iniya - a beautiful, gentle strength that allows you to not wither away after such a harsh blow - but rather blossom even more radiant as time goes on. Congrats to your brother and the wedding. Can't wait to see the pics. Welcome back Iniya - you are cherished by all and you give back such colorful joy and love - know this. xoxooxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxxoxo happiness and peace to you iniya Hi Iniya -

Guess what you’re already BEAUTIFUL, you’re a wonderful writer and you do quite well at your career. So I suppose your goal is to be even more luminous than you already are, an even more prolific writer and a damn hot shot engineer! All noble pursuits :)

I like your journaling idea - I think it’s really worthy and a great way to acknowledge what you treasure about yourself.

make sure one of your headings is RESILIENCY! You are strong Iniya - a beautiful, gentle strength that allows you to not wither away after such a harsh blow - but rather blossom even more radiant as time goes on.

Congrats to your brother and the wedding. Can’t wait to see the pics.

Welcome back Iniya - you are cherished by all and you give back such colorful joy and love - know this.

xoxooxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxxoxo

happiness and peace to you iniya

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