Comments on: A late rebel! http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/04/24/another-quick-update/ A woman looking for herself Fri, 25 May 2012 00:45:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: anngirl http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/04/24/another-quick-update/#comment-358 anngirl Sun, 27 Apr 2008 00:04:22 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/04/24/another-quick-update/#comment-358 Right on homegirl! Right on! Keep your head up and march forward ok! Be good to yourself :) xoxoxoxoxo Right on homegirl! Right on!

Keep your head up and march forward ok!

Be good to yourself :)
xoxoxoxoxo

]]> By: rubyjean http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/04/24/another-quick-update/#comment-357 rubyjean Thu, 24 Apr 2008 23:49:21 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/04/24/another-quick-update/#comment-357 This is not rebellion, Ini, this is growing up. I've been in those shoes with regards to mothers, really. It took me until my late twenties/early thirties to do what you're doing. I love my mom too, but establishing boundaries with her was so hard; she always took it as rejection, and, in her way, would punish. Meanwhile....boundaries are healthy and normal and grown up - they're not rejection, they're not disloyalty, they're not rebellion and you deserve to have them! Your mom will get over it, and love you still, and respect you more. I'm so happy that you have found this new sense of self and purpose. You're liked, loved and respected here, I hope you remember that. Sorry for sounding lecture-y! Love, Ruby This is not rebellion, Ini, this is growing up. I’ve been in those shoes with regards to mothers, really. It took me until my late twenties/early thirties to do what you’re doing. I love my mom too, but establishing boundaries with her was so hard; she always took it as rejection, and, in her way, would punish. Meanwhile….boundaries are healthy and normal and grown up - they’re not rejection, they’re not disloyalty, they’re not rebellion and you deserve to have them! Your mom will get over it, and love you still, and respect you more. I’m so happy that you have found this new sense of self and purpose. You’re liked, loved and respected here, I hope you remember that. Sorry for sounding lecture-y! Love, Ruby

]]> By: islandgrl http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/04/24/another-quick-update/#comment-356 islandgrl Thu, 24 Apr 2008 21:20:02 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/04/24/another-quick-update/#comment-356 Never too late. Good for you. Never too late. Good for you.

]]> By: soclose http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/04/24/another-quick-update/#comment-355 soclose Thu, 24 Apr 2008 15:53:38 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/04/24/another-quick-update/#comment-355 I can't tell you how fantastic it is to hear you talk like this!!!!!! I think you've made a breakthrough!!! Keep going!!! YES!!! () ( ) () ( ) ()-------me, clapping wildly!!!!! I can’t tell you how fantastic it is to hear you talk like this!!!!!! I think you’ve made a breakthrough!!! Keep going!!! YES!!!

() ( ) () ( ) ()——-me, clapping wildly!!!!!

]]> By: ellabella http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/04/24/another-quick-update/#comment-354 ellabella Thu, 24 Apr 2008 09:36:55 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/04/24/another-quick-update/#comment-354 Yay, Ini !!!!!! This, incidentally, isn't really a rebellion. It's a coming of age. And, it's exactly what you need to be doing. I'm proud of you, sweetie! Hugs, Z Yay, Ini !!!!!! This, incidentally, isn’t really a rebellion. It’s a coming of age. And, it’s exactly what you need to be doing. I’m proud of you, sweetie!
Hugs,
Z

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