Quick Update
Feeling much better today. Went to gym and had a massage too. Perhaps yesterday’s outburst was due to the heavy emotional stresss I went through for my brother’s marriage. Also good is a release of the pent-up angst.
Annie, I agree a pshychotherapist might be a good idea. Let me see and try to bring it up with my doctor this Sunday when I have my next appointment.
Thank you all for the greatest support and will catch up with you all soon.
rubyjean said,
April 15, 2008 @ 1:42 pm
Hi Ini, I’ve been reading your posts and it really sounds like you’ve been having a tough time. Exercising will usually go a long way to improving your state of mind, but then having a wedding to think about and worrying about work can bring you right back to square one. Give yourself time to heal. These things can take longer than a month or two. Is there a “Big Sister” (Big Brother) organisation in India? I’ve done that. You sign up for it, and the organisation will connect you with a child that needs a bit of extra adult attention in their life. It’s a wonderful thing where you spend time with a child, teaching them about how a healthy relationship works, and just being “there” for them, taking them out and about, maybe cooking together or visiting museum or a beach, talking and listening to each other.
Hugs for you, dear lady,
RubyJean
anngirl said,
April 17, 2008 @ 12:37 am
Happy you’re feeling better honey….
keep us posted -
peace be with you….
xo
ellabella said,
April 17, 2008 @ 11:33 am
Oh, Ini, I’m sorry I haven’t been in touch with you sweetheart. You know I think of you, and am wishing you the best always. Sometimes I just seem to miss the posts and don’t realize that you’ve posted because it gets buried by the others. I promise to look more carefully in the future. Sweetie, whatever comes along, remember that you have a good head on those shoulders of yours and plenty of intelligence and resources. You’ll get through all these rough spots, and one day the rough spots will be all behind you, and you’ll be having the wonderful life that you deserve. You do know that, right?
Hugs,
Z
rubyjean said,
April 17, 2008 @ 3:02 pm
hey there Ini, I think you’ll have to come over here and put up your dukes for me!
Actually I have heard of the whole delegate thing. Rosennie will eventually make her own appointments. I will catch her and make her sit with me and do it!
I’ve been able to get the girls to help with the house tidying, but being young, they think this is sheer torture. It makes me smile…..
I’m not being taken advantage of, really and truly. Some times are just busier than others and you need to figure out how to NOT drop all the good things you are trying to do for yourself, like eat right and exercise and all that….which always happens to me…I guess, to use an IT phrase, I’m very single threaded.
Hope you’re not really spoiling for a fight - if so, scream into a pillow as loud as you can a couple of times, or just punch a pillow!
Take care little sister.
RubyJean
soclose said,
April 19, 2008 @ 11:18 pm
Hope you’re still on an upswing!!!