Comments on: Thinking…

By: soclose

soclose — Sun, 23 Mar 2008 02:54:22 +0000

Miss you, been a few days; you OK?

By: Bobbie

Bobbie — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 23:40:29 +0000

Inya - I too have a seive brain but my BF calls me a flibbertygibbit. I get off track and sometimes forget what I am doing or am doing 3 things at one time. Like lodyangel, my family tells me I have ADD. They’ll call out, “Hey ADD, get back to the story”. Oh well, I just think it is one of our charming traits!

I wouldn’t worry about R or S. Stupid men! I don’t trust that R anyway. But just do your job and do a good job and it will all work itself out.

And by the way, this blog is your blog for you to talk about yourself! I don’t think you are self-centered at all. I think you are trying to get to know yourself better!

I like yoga and I think it does help with the weight loss. It puts you more intune with your body and helps make you want to treat it better so it can be more efficient for you.

There is lots of right with you! If you want, we can all get together and make a list! : )

Love, Bobbie

By: anngirl

anngirl — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 03:57:44 +0000

Oh gosh ms. iniya - drama at work. It’s almost as bad as heart drama. I don’t blame you for your suspicions…. right now everyone is suspect. I agree that you could definitely use getting your mind on other things because the ‘milk’ is already spilled. Perhaps focusing in on doing better at work and your eating will be a welcome distraction. I am though, however a fan of safe ‘escapism’ - entertainment books & movies & tv & art etc… it gives you a rest and floods you with different thoughts.

Again Iniya - like I always say - take it easy on yourself. Treat yourself with kindness. The yoga sounds good
xo

By: lodyangel

lodyangel — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 02:52:26 +0000

I too have sieve brain….My sisters tell me I have ADD. I an completely relate!

I learned something along time ago, that if someone is talking about everyone else to you, they are talking about you to everyone else! Good plan just to let it go. You will be gone soon enough! (((HUGS)))

By: soclose

soclose — Tue, 18 Mar 2008 12:52:30 +0000

Ruby Jean and Ella said it all. AND….there is very much “right” in you!!!

By: rubyjean

rubyjean — Tue, 18 Mar 2008 12:03:17 +0000

Hi Iniya, Ella’s comment - good sense words from a smart woman.

You remind me of myself sometimes! I totally understand that phrase “seive brains”, we have something similar in my family. We also have “blik oore” which means “tin ears” which you would say to a child who doesn’t listen! I always get so absorbed in what I’m doing that I shut everything out - as a kid I was always being reprimanded for being rude and not answering when called, but the truth was I just didn’t hear.

Keep your counsel at work - but then you know that. Plus, being a woman of mystery never hurts the old image

Take Mucho Care!
Ruby

By: ellabella

ellabella — Tue, 18 Mar 2008 10:05:45 +0000

Well, Ini, to be straight on with you, I wouldn’t rule out the possibility that R is the one who spoke to your boss. But then, I don’t like R one bit, so I may be a wee bit prejudiced, here. Yoga actually can be helpful with weight loss, or so they say. Good for you, at any rate. And as far as the career stuff goes - about it’s being just a job - it sounds to me like your intellect is not being properly challenged. Boredom tends to lead to reduced effort, after all. Maybe you were meant to be, oh, a quantum physicist? A brilliant heart surgeon? (Ack! I can’t stand the sight of blood, myself!) I don’t know. One last thing - about not praising R and S to your boss beyond what they deserve any more. Why did you over-praise them to begin with? I mean, I’m glad you’ve decided to stop doing it, but what was your goal in doing it in the first place? Just some thoughts for the day from dear old auntie Ellabella.