Comments on: Catching up http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/ A woman looking for herself Fri, 25 May 2012 00:32:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Bobbie http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-266 Bobbie Tue, 19 Feb 2008 03:12:51 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-266 You said, "I kept feeling undeserving of all the love I have received here. I don’t want to disappoint you." I say you can never disappoint any of us! And you are so deserving of all the love you have here. Each and everyone of us has something good and unique to offer each other. Please always know, here everyone loves you and everyone looks forward to hearing from you. You said, “I kept feeling undeserving of all the love I have received here. I don’t want to disappoint you.”

I say you can never disappoint any of us! And you are so deserving of all the love you have here. Each and everyone of us has something good and unique to offer each other. Please always know, here everyone loves you and everyone looks forward to hearing from you.

]]> By: Bobbie http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-265 Bobbie Tue, 19 Feb 2008 03:11:14 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-265 You need to be angry at R. You need to go through all the emotions it takes to put him in perspective. You are so much better of without him but I know it doesn't feel that way. And it doesn't feel fair. You are a lovely person and will get the love truly meant for you. I understand what you feel about Karma. I am big into Karma and try hard to keep my side of the street clean because I can't afford to have the Karmabird take a big crap on my head! I am glad you have new plans and goals. That always seems to get me through. Look forward to what the future has to offer you not what the past has not given you. Hugs to you my friend! Love, Bobbie You need to be angry at R. You need to go through all the emotions it takes to put him in perspective. You are so much better of without him but I know it doesn’t feel that way. And it doesn’t feel fair.

You are a lovely person and will get the love truly meant for you. I understand what you feel about Karma. I am big into Karma and try hard to keep my side of the street clean because I can’t afford to have the Karmabird take a big crap on my head!

I am glad you have new plans and goals. That always seems to get me through. Look forward to what the future has to offer you not what the past has not given you.
Hugs to you my friend! Love, Bobbie

]]> By: rubyjean http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-254 rubyjean Thu, 14 Feb 2008 00:32:12 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-254 Ella did say it so well - I echo her thoughts. I also know a little bit about how you feel, the not sleeping, trying to break out of that ole' big - D, and wondering if you withdraw are you disappointing everyone. You are loved here - no matter what! RubyJean Ella did say it so well - I echo her thoughts. I also know a little bit about how you feel, the not sleeping, trying to break out of that ole’ big - D, and wondering if you withdraw are you disappointing everyone. You are loved here - no matter what!
RubyJean

]]> By: lynard http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-253 lynard Wed, 13 Feb 2008 20:59:23 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-253 Ella said it all so well. I'm happy for your new plans and goals. You are a strong woman and I admisre you! L Ella said it all so well. I’m happy for your new plans and goals. You are a strong woman and I admisre you!
L

]]> By: soclose http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-252 soclose Wed, 13 Feb 2008 17:40:56 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-252 Me, again. I am stealing a quote from another blog today cause I think you need it---and, I don't think Judy will mind. My hopes are not always realized, but I will always have hope. OVID Those guys knew what it's about. Me, again. I am stealing a quote from another blog today cause I think you need it—and, I don’t think Judy will mind.

My hopes are not always realized, but I will always have hope. OVID

Those guys knew what it’s about.

]]> By: soclose http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-251 soclose Wed, 13 Feb 2008 17:37:05 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-251 Ditto Ellabella.........time, time, time........and, btw, you are INCAPABLE of disappointing, sweetheart!! Ditto Ellabella………time, time, time……..and, btw, you are INCAPABLE of disappointing, sweetheart!!

]]> By: ellabella http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-250 ellabella Wed, 13 Feb 2008 15:26:46 +0000 http://www.3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/iniya/2008/02/13/catching-up/#comment-250 Love, my dear girl, has nothing to do with "deserving". You have every right to be furious with R. The trouble is, that unless you use that angry energy productively (ie.; to push YOURSELF forward) it's of no use whatsoever. I think that in time, and as you move on with your life, your feelings for him - and how he treated you - will recede and overshadow you less. The biggest mistake you can make is to feel inadequate - to feel that R moved on because he found someone "better" than you. From everything you've said - and much that you haven't said - my impression of R is that he is immature, egocentric and shallow. Perhaps even you don't see him that way, but I do, and I suspect that even if this whole fiasco hadn't come about when it did, it would have eventually. His wife-to-be may find herself wondering, at some point in the future, how she could have been so blind as to get herself tied up with him. Blah. Not YOUR problem. Now is a time, Ini, to stay in touch with your brother, work on getting to the next phase of your life, and look forward to better things and happier times. They WILL come. Hugs, Z Love, my dear girl, has nothing to do with “deserving”. You have every right to be furious with R. The trouble is, that unless you use that angry energy productively (ie.; to push YOURSELF forward) it’s of no use whatsoever. I think that in time, and as you move on with your life, your feelings for him - and how he treated you - will recede and overshadow you less. The biggest mistake you can make is to feel inadequate - to feel that R moved on because he found someone “better” than you. From everything you’ve said - and much that you haven’t said - my impression of R is that he is immature, egocentric and shallow. Perhaps even you don’t see him that way, but I do, and I suspect that even if this whole fiasco hadn’t come about when it did, it would have eventually. His wife-to-be may find herself wondering, at some point in the future, how she could have been so blind as to get herself tied up with him. Blah. Not YOUR problem. Now is a time, Ini, to stay in touch with your brother, work on getting to the next phase of your life, and look forward to better things and happier times. They WILL come.
Hugs,
Z

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