Comments on: Rambling

By: soclose

soclose — Tue, 05 Feb 2008 02:44:07 +0000

Iniya—we miss you! Hoping you are doing better and just too busy to blog.

By: anngirl

anngirl — Sat, 02 Feb 2008 10:41:11 +0000

Hey Iniya - where you at girlie? I hope this note finds you well and in good health. Blog girlie - BLOG!

Sending you peace ….

By: rubyjean

rubyjean — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 16:21:02 +0000

You did such a fine, grown up job of handling that situation. I am very proud of you.
Like Anngirl, I believe this will be your year….
Love,
RubyJean

By: anngirl

anngirl — Mon, 28 Jan 2008 07:06:53 +0000

Iniya - F*&^% R really - no I don’t mean literally - but shit - you are so strong for being able to put up with that shit.

I would have thought about packing him up in bite size bits into zip lock baggies….

Hang in there girlie - I am sending you the winds of change so that you can get out of there and into another place where you won’t be bothered by that bullshit.

xo Iniya - this is our year honey!!!!!!!

By: tjnorth

tjnorth — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 18:00:21 +0000

Sometimes you have to put yourself first, and do what you need to do to be healthy. Don’t feel badly about looking after yourself. It’s the right think to do.

By: islandgrl

islandgrl — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 08:18:58 +0000

Thanks for sharing your stories, you made them seem so lifelike, they took wings with your words.
You did well to leave early and did a fine job of looking after yourself, you managed above all to stay positive and healthy. You will get thru this, I feel you getting stronger every day.

By: lodyangel

lodyangel — Sat, 26 Jan 2008 03:10:13 +0000

I think that leaving work is just what was needed in this situation. Is there a light at the end of your tunnel? Is he, perhaps, leaving your department, company, city, or state after his nuptials? Time heals all wounds but I don’t think it will get any easier after he is married. (However, staying and watching the reality of marriage sink into him might be fun too! Teehee!) At any rate I feel for you, and I understand your pain. Take care of you and look into getting away from him and his bliss for awhile. Any chance you could transfer departments? I just think that this situation is not healthy for you. I want you to feel better and get this jerk outta your head. Sending lots of love and hugs your way!

By: fatasianchick

fatasianchick — Sat, 26 Jan 2008 00:26:10 +0000

That book sounds amazingly interesting. I definitely have to look it up. The way you describe it is so beautiful. You are a complex tapestry of incredible beauty all on your own Iniya. I hope you never underestimate how special you are.

By: julieesg

julieesg — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 16:11:49 +0000

I think you did a very good job of taking care of yourself yesterday.

By: soclose

soclose — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 16:00:57 +0000

Well, you help me see things differently too and think of things that haven’t ever crossed my mind. I don’t think I’d ever heard of Bangalore, now I can find it on a map, granted, a tiny accomplishment but more than I knew before you. I look forward to your blogs and hearing how you are doing and how your life is going—so far away! You are a much loved and treasured thread in the tapestry that is 3FC