Hello… my name is Eryn, and I am a food-aholic
General May 20th, 2008Do you know why I hate dieting? Because it makes me so fucking irritable. There, I dropped the f-bomb (I apolgize if I offend) but it’s true. And the more irritable I get, the more I eat. And the more I eat, the worse I feel about myself and the harder it is to keep going. Why can’t I just be happy with the way I am? Although I am overweight, I am definitely NOT a couch potato. I am fit. I can keep up with my kids, I play volleyball at least twice a week and I even exercise about 3 times a week. This is me. I’ve always been like this. Even in high school with playing sports year round, I was still overweight. Whay mental block do I have that keeps me from at least liking one little molecule of myself?! Wait… perhaps that’s it… I’m MENTAL!!! Someone call the guys in the white coats!
Yesterday I did SO well…. until I got home. By then I was irratable. I wasn’t really hungry, but I was yelling at the kids and trying to exercise but my littlest (18months) was all up in my grill and it was just not condusive to exercising. So what did I do? I stopped exercising and started eating. Good job, Eryn. That’s the way to do it. I wish my little friend would just come so I could the get PMS over with. My body is starting to do weird things again. It was this way before I started having children. It was so off cycle. I never knew when she would come visit. I think now after 2 children and being off the pill since, well, since before I got pregnant with the second one, it’s going back into normal mode which is not really any sort of norm after all. Perhaps that’s part of the problem too. I know my doctor won’t put me back on birth control because I’ve had a tubal, so there really isn’t any need to go back on.
You know the funny thing? I don’t even like food anymore. It sounds weird, so let me try and explain. I am so tried of eating junk OR dieting and not being able to eat what I want or what I really like OR feeling guilty for eating what I shouldn’t that I don’t even enjoy eating anymore. Ask me where I want to go eat - don’t even bother. I am so over food and eating this and not eating that that nothing NOTHING even sounds good to me anymore. And that’s sad because I’ll see a recipe or something and it looks SO good to me and I’ll make it but then I won’t even want it. Does it stop me from eating though? HELL NO!! I’ll still eat - zombie like. There is no enjoyment anymore. I wish it did stop me from eating. Maybe then I wouldn’t be overweight!! But then I think I would have picked up an eating disorder and I don’t want that either. I wish I could just find a balance. I wish I could just start exercising enough to be able to eat what I want… not over eat mind you. Just eat in moderation, but eat the things I ENJOY!!!! And to not eat things that I don’t enjoy just to put something in my mouth and stomach. Is there a Food-aholic’s Anonymous? Well, there is an Overeaters Anonymous, right? For people with eating disorders? Perhaps I should join. Not that I think it would do any good. I’ve been in weight watchers long enough to KNOW what the right things are too eat.. the “rules” per say.
Blah….. on a different note…. THANK YOU SO MUCH getupnow for turning me on to C25K I have a feeling this is what I need. I found the podcasts and then went on a treasure hunt for my husbands MP3 player last night that he doesn’t use anymore. I am going to download them and start this. I have always been envious of runners and I need an outlet or I am going to explode. I walk every once in awhile, but I get bored. Those podcasts sound great and I’ll feel like I’m in the club with the techno music. I don’t know if I’ll start this week or next. I really should get a good pair of running shoes first since my shoes have been abused by 3 years of volleyball and every day wear. I can’t wait to get started though!! And then maybe I can join my mom in running all the races we have around here instead of walking in the 3K.
May 20th, 2008 at 7:50 am
Hello,
I clicked onto the c25k site. It was pretty interesting. Thanks for putting it on your blog.
I have a little one (turning 2 Thursday) and he is like that as well. I have to wait till he down for a nap or get up super early to go on the treadmill before he wakes up.
I get soooooo bored on that thing as well. It is easier to walk outside with my hubby or go to a class. Not as boring.
Dont get too down on yourself.
Try to take it easy and keep strong.
You can do this (even if one second at a time)
Take care
Joy
May 20th, 2008 at 11:51 am
I will try to keep this reasonably short. I relate to a lot of what you are saying. The one thing that I WISH I could relate to was being athletic. I always hid BEHIND the people like you in volleyball, praying desperately that the ball would NOT come my way!! You are very fortunate in that you have those abilities. I would venture to say sports will be what leads you to a more balanced relationship with food. I think most people will have weak moments. I sure did last night! But I used to eat like that a few times a week and now it is down to once a month or less. I think a lot of people see hope in C25k. I can’t even explain why I am even attempting it. I know you have mentioned not really wanting to run and I was soooo there before. But there are various factors that made me want to try. I got bored with my elliptical and felt that to get to the next level of fitness, I needed something new. I don’t always set and accomplish goals, but I do know that goals really motivate me sometimes. And I saw hope in C25k. I had read blogs like http://fatto5k.blogspot.com/ and really felt like maybe running was not actually out of reach for me. It took me months to get started. I just kept seeing things here and there on blogs about C25k and it piqued my interest time after time. Like I always say, I am not convinced that I can do it but I am convinced that I will try. I am excited to see how it goes for you because you sound soooo much like me! Well, other than that volleyball part since volleyball is what my nightmares are made of