Day #88 - Bikefest.

Starting weight (7/15/08):    279.8    (1/8/08):    285.2
Calories/Carbs Goals (limits):       1400  / 30.0
Yesterday’s calories & net carbs:  1388 / 29.5
Yesterday’s exercise:  1 hour DDR
Weight Yesterday:  254.2    Today:  253.6
Change today::  -0.6 lbs.   Loss-so-far:  26.2 lbs.  /  31.6 lbs.

I spent the day with my hubby today, just the two of us.  I really love that man.

Because I love him, I will do stuff that makes him happy.  Stuff that doesn’t particularly appeal to me but we’re two different people after all - we do happen to have a lot in common - but we also have some different interests and tastes.  Sometimes we’ll do stuff that I like and he goes with it because it makes me happy.  Today, though, it was his turn.

My husband is a motorcycle enthusiast.  Specifically, a Harley Davidson fan.  He owns a 1995 Fatboy (with all the upgrade chrome stuff) which he keeps in cherry condition.  Today there was a “Bikefest” in a nearby town and we spent the afternoon and early evening there, strolling down the (blocked off) streets, looking at all the motorcycles, visiting the vendors, and (most of all for me) people-watching. 

We had a really good time.  Yep, me too.  Even though I’m not as fanatic about motorcycles as he is, I’ve learned to enjoy the events (and museums and assembly plants and stores) that we’ve visited. 

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Yep, there he is, my man in his element.  =D

Here’s the thing though… see that cute little seat behind him?  The one for a passenger?  I won’t ride there.  Not because I don’t trust him to drive safely, no.  I sat there once and though I “fit” behind him, I felt like I was plastered up onto his back.  But my feelings of being crowded (or crowding him) are not why I won’t ride with him.  There is really only one basic reason why I won’t ride on the back of his bike.

I don’t want him to be embarrassed.  Now I don’t think he’d actually be embarrassed or even give a shit what people think about his woman because he really doesn’t give a rat’s ass about what people think about anything else so why would he start?  Also, he’s never cared whether I was fat or thin, he loves me just the same.

Nah, it’s me… I just don’t want him to be the biker with the fat chick on the back.

So - one of my (many!) reasons for being so committed to losing weight - and getting fit … is to ride on the back of that Harley.  And I will.

CARTOON OF THE DAY
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4 Comments so far

  1. sterling on October 12th, 2008

    Oh, Eileen, you sweetpea you. He wouldn’t be the biker with a fat chick on the back, he’d be the biker with a fantastic, funny, charming and beautiful woman on the back! Get on the back of that bike tomorrow for a fantastic Florida Sunday ride - he’ll be the happiest biker in the state.

    Your guys is handsome, the bike is handsome and you’ll only enhance the two. What low carb eye candy your guy and his bike make ;)

  2. sterling on October 12th, 2008

    PS: Besides, you’re freaking lighter every day lately! So you lost weight TODAY to ride TOMORROW! Love!

  3. getupnow on October 12th, 2008

    Awww! Your hubby looks so cool on his harley!! Of course, even cooler is how you speak of him. He is one lucky, loved man. I think the idea of holding off on riding with him until you can feel the way you want about it is very understandable. And it is great motivation! When we went to Costa Rica, I was too embarrassed to do the zipline with my hubby because of my weight and if I ever make it back there, I am going to zipline all over that country! hee hee!

  4. soclose on October 12th, 2008

    Hey….I have friends in Fl. (Jacksonville, to be specific) who do the bike thing……wonder if they were at your bikefest??
    If you can’t get on now, pick a number and when you get there—ride the tires off that thing!!!!

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