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16 Sep, 2009

Choosing to be Powerful

Posted by: delitaagain In: Planning

For five months I have taken a break from watching my eating (translation: eaten whatever I *wanted*). In that time, I’ve gained about 5 pounds per month - just over a pound a week. This can’t be good.

My life is unusual. This means, my options are a little different than most.

I live a lot of places, often with other people making the purchasing and planning and even cooking decisions. So, I might not prefer to eat pork as my meat, breaded and fried vegetables or peeled potatoes in my potato salad, but sometimes those are my options.

Do I use this as an excuse to NOT watch what I eat or do I take responsibility for my choices?

Choosing responsibility begins with eating wisely of what is available and making sure I drink water, don’t skip breakfast, forgo endless cookies and ice cream, etc.

A woman minister (Joyce Meyer) once made the statement: You can be “pitiful” or “powerful” but not both. I’m not a Joyce Meyer follower but this statement really changed my life.

I have had many *set-backs* in my life. But do I choose to use them as excuses, or take responsibility for my choices, and choose to be *powerful* and take responsibility for doing what I can?

Powerful has to:

  • let go of excuses,
  • make the best choices possible, and
  • live with the results without whining.

I choose powerful. I don’t need more excuses. I’ve had enough of that *pitiful,* everyone feeling sorry for me and my life.

From this day:

  • I re-start watching what I eat.
  • I will set three goals for the rest of this month.
  • My weigh-in day will be Wednesday.

How about you. Pitiful or powerful?

5 Responses to "Choosing to be Powerful"

1 | Sandi DeFalco

September 16th, 2009 at 12:23 pm

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Hey Delita - I am so glad that you are back to posting! That’s the first time I’ve heard of ‘pitiful’ vs. ‘powerful’, now that’s really extreme wording for me. Regardless, it’s true with me. I have put off walking most of the summer because ‘it was too hot’. Luckily my weight is maintained, but I had lost those extra couple of pounds when I walked a half-hour every other or everyday. I guess if I had gained it might have shocked me into reality, and hop in my car to the mall where I could walk in air-conditioned temperature. So, I guess I had a ‘pitiful’ excuse for not walking! I check your blog everyday for updates, and was thrilled to see one today. The new word of the day thanks to your insight ‘POWERFUL’. Blog Buddy, Sandi

2 | Joy

September 17th, 2009 at 6:19 am

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GREAT post today! I happen to really like Joyce Meyers. She usually has a lot of profound statements like that . again really great post!

3 | delitaagain

September 19th, 2009 at 11:52 am

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Sandi - thanks! I’m determined to live what I can do instead of whine about what I *can’t* do. I guess that makes me power-full! lol Yea for you for choosing powerful too!

4 | delitaagain

September 19th, 2009 at 11:53 am

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Joy, how great to see you! Thank you!

5 | round

September 20th, 2009 at 4:04 pm

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This is great, I like the options you lay out.

A woman whose podcast I listen to has a similar phrase ‘you can’t feel deprived and virtuous at the same time’ — so when you pass up the cake, take your pick — virtuous makes a circle, as does deprived….

I think your approach is a good and realistic one given your living situation

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