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13 Mar, 2009

What Are My Eyes On?

Posted by: delitaagain In: Lessons Learned

My (longest standing) diet buddy Sandi is back at it again (YAY Sandi!) and has got me thinking about what helps me keep going.

I know it is not the idea of my target weight, although that is an exciting number to me! And, it is not that I am desperate to look good to catch a man (although I do enjoy looking good and have nothing against men)! LOL

The real prize to me will be the lifestyle I can have when I am fit and thin enough that I can wear what I want, do what I want, go where I want, live the way I want. I’m tired of being side-lined, and, of depressing myself with my lumpishness and my inability to participate.

Living the way I used to live (eating wrong and being a couch potato) was robbing me not only of life today - and friends, and doing things outdoors, and fun, and… etc. It was also robbing me of my future. Future life, future years, future possibilities.

Now that I can fit in an airline seat again, now that I can hike up a mountain or across a town when needed, now that I don’t have to sit out what others are doing, I have my life back and I’m getting more and more opportunities back every day.

That seems a small price to pay for the price of a happy long life doing the things I want to do. This is especially meaningful to me as I have a whole new career starting and expect to be very busy and do a lot of traveling over the next 20 plus years.

What is the prize you have your eye on? Or what keeps you going?

8 Responses to "What Are My Eyes On?"

1 | loosingme

March 13th, 2009 at 2:27 pm

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Not to have to look back and wish I would’ve and should’ve. :)

2 | Sandi DeFalco

March 14th, 2009 at 7:25 pm

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Put simply, to look GOOD, feel GREAT, and be proud of it. :)

3 | jellybelly87

March 15th, 2009 at 11:51 am

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Hi! I’m new to 3 fat chicks blog - just signed up today. I’ve been reading a few blogs and such - just seeing how things work around here.

ANyways, I came accross yours b/c of a comment you left another user. I liked what you had to say in the comment and thought that I’d check out your blog!! I’m so glad I did!!
Reading this was so inspirational and motivating!!

I’m having a little trouble navigating around here but hopefully I’ll be able to find my way back to your blog!!

Congradulations on your successes!!

4 | delitaagain

March 15th, 2009 at 2:09 pm

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loosingme, whoa, that is a good one! I agree! I know that I can do this with God’s strength and if I don’t I’ll have only regrets and myself to blame. Thanks! Delita

5 | delitaagain

March 15th, 2009 at 2:10 pm

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Sandi, I agree with that one, too! I’ve finally caught on that I really want to look good and feel great and have the health to do it. I’m so happy for you! Delita

6 | delitaagain

March 15th, 2009 at 2:11 pm

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jellybelly, so glad to see you! I really enjoy meeting new bloggers. So glad you made it by. I had the same difficulty in navigating and figuring out how to set up the blog for a while, but gradually it got easier. And the accountability and support is soooooo worth it! Thanks for coming by! Delita

7 | majestichollyhock

March 15th, 2009 at 4:54 pm

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Hi Delita, hmmmm….I dont have a prize. I just know I need to take this weight off. Not that knowing this has worked very well for me. hmmm…… the prize….no hip or knee replacement surgery in 20 years. Not overly profound but a goal.

8 | inkheartmeg

March 15th, 2009 at 6:51 pm

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Fitting in the airline seat is no joke. Good thing the last few trips I’ve taken, i had a pint sized child next to me so I can have half of his seat. the trip in July 2007 I was so stressed about not getting the seat belt to fit, that I brought with an extender! Thankfully I didn’t need it and I had no reason to stress this recent trip because having lost 30 pounds. I knew it’d fit!

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