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13 Nov, 2008

I WANT MY LIFE BACK!

Posted by: delitaagain In: Motivation

Susan, over at Happy Hag got me thinking with this question, quoting Patty, at Sistah Pat: at what age can you say the hell with it and slip gradually into the “Grandmotherly Figure”?

Well, I’d say I’ve accomplished the grandmotherly figure and surpassed it!

Now that I’m fast approaching GREAT-grandchildren (Lord willing), I am fighting to ditch the grandmotherliness-plus. Yes I’m tired of looking like a blimp. But I’m even more tired of feeling and acting like a man-made mountain (trash mountain).

I WANT MY LIFE BACK!


And, I’m getting it. Gradually. I’m actually down just over 40 pounds in just over 4 years. Not a great accomplishment, but then one way I got up to 150 pounds over weight was by gaining 10 pounds a year for 10 years. After that (long story short), I reallly let go and piled on the last 50 pounds even faster.

Looks are important - to an extent. They affect how we feel about ourselves and they also affect how people think about us and treat us. But that’s not the worst.

The worst is, gradually I had to give up things I wanted to be doing and give up doing things with people because - I just couldn’t. Many of my friends have succumbed to gaining weight, sitting in a chair and waiting life out while watching TV or such. Did you know that invites disease?

Not me!

I WANT MY LIFE BACK!


And, I’m taking it back. And, I’m picking up the pace. And, I’m enjoying the changes. Already I have a great life, much improved. And…

YOU AIN’T SEEN NOTHIN’ YET!


I’m taking my life back. No blaming, no hostages, no excuses. I’m having a blast! How about you?

11 Responses to "I WANT MY LIFE BACK!"

1 | duckie

November 13th, 2008 at 12:14 pm

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Definately want my life back too :) Really you go girlfriend! Weightloss isn’t about other people but about feeling great about yourself and you have such a great positive attitude. Good luck with getting everything back!

2 | neverperfect

November 13th, 2008 at 1:37 pm

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When can we slip into the grandmotherly figure? Love it. I hate to admit that I frequently look at myself in the mirror and think “I don’t look bad for a mom of four”. The only problem is my four children are furry. Oops! But it is time to get our lives back. Are looks the most important? No, but we are all on very dangerous trajectories if we don’t change something. Shoot, I’ve gained almost 60 pounds since I got married- TWO AND A HALF YEARS AGO. If we keep up with that rate of gain…. I don’t even want to think about it. Congrats on getting your life back! It’s time to take charge!

3 | getupnow

November 13th, 2008 at 3:11 pm

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I love this. Good for you! Regardless of what we tell ourselves about how the weight does’t matter and shouldn’t matter and all that…it does. It did to me. The quality of my life is better now. It used to be that every accomplishment was clouded in my mind by my weight. Sure I was a good mom, but I was fat mom. Sure I could cook good, but I was a fat good cook. Reality is that I could not change how I felt about myself being overweight, but I could change my weight! And I did and I am so very very glad that I did. Your weight loss over the past four years is GREAT because not only did you lose, but you did NOT gain. So good for you! You are well on your way. :-D

4 | soclose

November 13th, 2008 at 5:22 pm

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Yes, it’s hard not to get discouraged, esp. when you try for a bit and nothing happens. For about 8 months I was losing; got to slightly over 30 pounds lost and then it stopped…….true, I let up on myself a bit that summer…….but now when I try again the weight loss is sooooooo small and sooooo long in coming. In my mid-50’s it’s hard to accept that I don’t DESERVE a treat now and then…..

I look at my friends and most, if not all, of them are heavier than me and that also makes me wonder why I’m beating myself silly over this.

5 | susan

November 13th, 2008 at 7:54 pm

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(OOOFfff! ~ that’s me buttoning my tight pants)

I’m with ya, Delita! I can’t give up.

Thanks for your good wise words!

Susan
a.k.a. Happy Hag

6 | grabthebull

November 13th, 2008 at 9:51 pm

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dang chica… BRING IT!!!

7 | leighish

November 13th, 2008 at 9:53 pm

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woooooo!!! yeaaah!!!

8 | jayme31

November 14th, 2008 at 12:52 am

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Thanks for stopping by my blog:)

I want my life back too….no more excuses for being this way,,, and back to good ole portion control and physical activity every day, like clock work.

If i can eat everyday, i must be able to excercise everyday too!!

Thanks for the motivating post,,, its just what i needed:)

Good luck!!

9 | lillie

November 14th, 2008 at 11:55 pm

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Hilarious. thanks for the funny reminder to get off my butt and get moving. No grandmotherly figure for me yet! Besides, when I do become a grandmother, I want a lap for the grandbabies to sit on, right? ;)

Keep up the great work. thanks for encouraging words.

10 | eryn76

November 19th, 2008 at 9:38 am

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That’s a great outlook. And it is so true!! I am inspired by my grandparents… they go walking every morning at the mall (it opens early for walkers) and my grandmother gets onto my grandfather for eating too much chips and cookies (he is a junk foodie for sure!!)

But you know, they eat huge dinners (salad, entree, side, roll and normally dessert) but stay SUPER SKINNY!!

Why didn’t I get the genes from THAT side of the family?!!

11 | Teresa

November 30th, 2008 at 2:29 pm

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I am so damn glad I read this. I’ve been frumping around lately and when I saw pictures of myself on vacation in October, I thought, who is that middle-aged woman???? I want my life back too!

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