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10 Oct, 2008

It IS possible: One Step at a Time

Posted by: delitaagain In: Lessons Learned

Those founders of Alcoholics Anonymous were onto something. They came up with 12 steps. Twelve steps to recovery, available to any who were willing to take the steps. And, it works. They have led millions to recovery, from alcoholism and many other challenges.

Recently, I’ve learned a new thing. God never expects me to do more than take the one step that is in front of me. I don’t have to figure out how to get somewhere, and I never have to take some HUGE step that will get me to a place I can only imagine.

I saw it last night as a toddler standing at the foot of a staircase. This toddler was standing there crying, wanting to be *at the top.* With arms out stretched and bawling, he was asking to be lifted up.

I realized that’s us. It is me. How many times have I felt like the goal at the top of the steps was *too far* or *too high* and I just wanted to be rescued and carried, lifted up and put in that place I aspire to.

But, it doesn’t work that way. If I want to get there, I need to take the steps.

The comforting thing is, I’m not expected to take a life time’s worth, or even a year’s worth of steps today. I’m not even needing to take all of my steps for this day at one time. I only need to take one step, the one in front of me, the next one. And if I keep on, if I keep doing it, if I keep stepping those steps in the right direction, I’ll get there. It’s that simple.

And, it works.

And, I can quit bawling now and looking for my rescuer or trying to get someone to agree with me and feel sorry for me. Truthfully, there are many with worse problems than I. I’m blessed. I just need to take 1 step.

I think I’ll take mine.

How about you?

7 Responses to "It IS possible: One Step at a Time"

1 | shallweshrink

October 11th, 2008 at 8:15 pm

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I had that epiphany about a week ago, and though it is not a fun one to have, it sure is productive! :) You are doing so great. I am envious of your numbers. Mine are so, well, low!

And thanks for the Sooner condolences. It is a sad day for us. Boo!

2 | angela

October 12th, 2008 at 8:30 am

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An amazing way to make us think Delita–Thanks! You’re right..losing weight is all about taking one step at a time…weightloss will not happen overnight and it’s almost impossible i believe for someone to take all the steps at one time.

The past few weeks I had some stuff going on with my car that was costing quite a bit..beyond stressed..and both my friend and bf said to me “it’s just a car and it could be a lot worse like sickness or a death in the family” and I realized that same thing..there are MANY more people out there who are going through so much worse than I am…and that I should be thankful for what I have in my life.
Have a great day!!!

3 | Patty

October 12th, 2008 at 10:24 am

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Ahhh, Delita…Can you come and live with me? Thanks so much for your kind comments when I was feeling so tired and overwhelmed. I came here to reply and found a wealth of insight and encouragement.

Thank You!

(((((((BIG Hugs!)))))))

4 | delitaagain

October 12th, 2008 at 2:14 pm

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shallweshrink - yep, when I read your post it reminded me of seeing the toddler and planning to blog this - so thanks for the reminder! We need to re-define *great.* Ah HA! LOL You just gave me the idea for another blog post. Will you keep hanging around, please??? =) Delita

5 | delitaagain

October 12th, 2008 at 2:15 pm

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Oh, Angela - that’s exciting. What a perfect application! Now I need to look around my life and see where I’ve been stressing on stuff instead of being grateful for what I have and taking the next steps in trust. THANKS! Delita

6 | delitaagain

October 12th, 2008 at 2:16 pm

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Patty, Patty, Patty. Funny, I feel that way when I read your blog or the blogs of others. I think we were created to need each other? So glad you are here and doing so well. Thanks for the note! Delita

7 | neverperfect

October 13th, 2008 at 10:42 pm

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What a great point. It all goes back to the idea of life as a journey and not a destination. I think I waste too much time wishing and waiting to be at goal weight that I act like a petulant child and sit down to tantrum, instead of just standing up and putting one foot in front of the other. There is no magic escalator or pill or rain dance that’s going to get me where I want to be, I’m going to have to get there on my own two feet. It’s like one of my favorite quotes- remember, when you see a man standing on top of a mountain, he didn’t fall there.

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