5 ways we sabbotage ourselves in dieting

Posted by cleancowgirl on July 23rd, 2012 |Filed Under Uncategorized | 3 Comments

So you have been eating healthy for a couple of months and seeing a little bit of progress on the scale and in your clothes and then it happens you sabbotage yourself!  You are driving home from a long hard day and decide to treat yourself  by stopping at dairy queen for a blizzard ice cream treat and not the single serving small.  Why would you do this???  You have now sabbotaged yourself.  Okay you did not have the ice cream but did you know there are other ways to sabbotage your efforts.

Self-Sabotage #1:   You disregard the power of your thoughts and think weight loss happens only through physical effort.

We’re conditioned to believe that releasing weight is only about diet and exercise. Of course, that’s important. But the thoughts in your mind are just as important as the calories you consume.   You need to have faith in yourself.

Discover what limiting beliefs hold you back. If you’re not sure, listen to your self-talk and how you speak to and react to others. Become aware of fears or doubts that hinder your progress.

Self-Sabotage #2:  Instead of focusing on your goal, you dwell on being overweight.

Okay you made some success but you did not realize how hard this would be and taking off the last 20 lbs or even 5 pounds would take so long!
Until you shift negative attention away from your current weight, and focus on where you’re going, you’ll remain stuck. Criticizing yourself keeps you attached to what you don’t want.  It’s like trying to drive forward in your car while still in “park.”  You’re not going anywhere.

To keep the image of your goal in mind, regularly practice visualization. This helps you create the feeling of excited anticipation of having the body you desire. This new mental model of success gently guides you towards your goal.  Make small tangible goals instead of saying I need to lose 100 lbs.

Self-Sabotage #3.  You punish  yourself for setbacks instead of moving on.

You have been losing steadily and then your boyfriend wants to take your out for a celebration.  You say”I will be good”.  You get to the restaurant and lose all control  but you are celebrating after all and you have the pasta and tiramusu.

Every path to dieting success has its ups and downs.  What you perceive as a setback stops your progress only when you think it does.

Solution: Be gentle with yourself. You will make huge strides when you simply say “I’ll make a different choice next time” and let it go. Practice to forgive yourself.  When you release shame and guilt, minor slips become meaningless.

Self-Sabotage #4:  You want to change your body, but don’t accept it as it is now.

It may seem strange to think of accepting a body you want to change. But, ironically, what we resist, persists. Remaining at war with your body keeps you stuck and keeps weight on. Being at peace isn’t about accepting excess weight, it’s about acception of yourself.

Solution: Give your body a daily gift. In doing so you’re honoring yourself, and your body. Your gift could be a ten-minute walk, a glass of water, or lotion on your hands. By consciously offering your body daily devotion you’re creating a pathway to self-acceptance and self-love.

Self-Sabotage #5:  You become discouraged when you don’t see immediate results.

Permanent weight loss takes time. Patience is necessary to emotionally grow into the new person you’re becoming. Allow inner transformation to happen along with the outer change of reducing pounds. One reason yo-yo dieting is so common is that weight is released but self-sabotaging thoughts are not.

Solution: Even when you don’t see visible results, have faith. You are making progress. Recognize that your tendency to find evidence of failure is your fear-based mind trying to discourage you. Hold faith in your heart. Just because you haven’t reached your goal yet doesn’t mean you won’t. You will.


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