A Life Less Overweight

I’ve come to realize that there are a lot of people who don’t like you when you know exactly who you are and are confident in yourself. I know that I have a lot of work to do in the making my body over department, but besides that, I really do like myself and know who I am. As I get older, I am beginning to see that a lot of women are threatened by that. And I can’t figure out why. I have one “friend” in particular who always seems to be talking crap about me, and my other friend concluded that she thinks it is because I have my own way of doing things, and that she doesn’t like that I don’t depend on her to make up my mind about things or depend on her for my social calendar. It pisses her off that I know myself, know my comfort level, and can confidently go up against her. She is so used to the other friend agreeing with her on every last thing that when it comes to me and I don’t agree with her, she hates it. And it has lead to this really odd dynamic in our friendship, if that’s even what you can call it.
Women really are our own worst enemies. You can say that guys hold high expectations, high standards, and judge us, but really not as harshly as we judge each other.  How often do you really hear guys talking shit about a woman?? Not often, because they really just don’t care. They either like you or they don’t but they don’t do all that nice to your face crap. And I like that about them. At least they are real.