Change of heart (see post below this one)
& not in the direction you might usually suspect.
I decided last night that I really am upset & angry at my “friend” for lying about her “ladies’ night out” (her husband told mine about the trip, apparently).
Here’s why: not only did she lie when she said she had to get ready for a “meeting” at 6, not a party; but she actually asked me what hubby & I were doing last night before we left her house. Yeah…how’s that for shitty? In other words, no way in hell did she, as her hubby said, “think she might have forgotten to ask” me to join her little sunset cruise.
So…she lies, her husband lies, and then I’m supposed to show up (late) to her little party when everyone else at that little party knows that I was an after thought, an also-ran, the person she felt she HAD to invite & not someone she wanted to invite like the rest of the little party.
Awesome. I thought I left this bullshit popularity crap behind in high school! But no, the beautiful & wealthy size 4s still rule the planet & I get to feel awesome when they toss a bone my way.
Show of hands…who thinks I’m p*$$ed about this?
Her being a size 4, I think, has nothing to do with her being a piece of shite.
:: hugs ::
Can’t blame you for being P*$$ed. I would be too. She sounds like a user…
You? Are far too evolved for this kind of bullshit. Sorry that you did so much *work* and *helping* only to feel like it was for someone who is not a true friend. But don’t worry… what goes around comes around. Always. Without fail. xoxo
oooohhhh….I might have ‘accidentally’ dropped the bottle of patrone overboard….
I was so mad when I read this. so very mad for you. I very much know how it feels. The woman has absolutely no respect to treat you in that way. As though you were the hired help.