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Briefly, all of us girls are comin back from lunch one day and we pull into the parking lot. This amazing buff cop (bicycle patrol) is stopped in the lot. Immediately my wild friend starts to hail him down to talk to him. She grills him a bit and we find that he is single. She then initiates an exchange of phone numbers between him and me. I figure I’ll never hear from him because she was so incredibly bold and obnoxious. Plus - I am a large girl - who wants that?Amazingly, he calls me later that evening and we talk for a few minutes. Wild girl tells me to invite him out for drinks with her, her husband and one of the co-workers and her boyfriend. So I figure it’s harmless and he agrees to come out. He shows up and my goodness, he is absolutely gorgeous. He’s also well educated (Morehouse), wants to settle down and owns property. I feel like I won the MAN lotto at this point, but I’m cool. I smile a lot and we talk some more and he appears to be very attentive, interested in me etc…. I hug him goodnight and tell him I had a great time. * I don’t kiss easily - I’ve grown shy in my old age *

I heard nothing for a week. I was bummed. I knew it was a crazy pipe dream, me being a big girl. He would have to be a REAL man to appreciate me through the padding. Then one day a week later out of the blue, I get a text message asking me if I’m at work. Unfortunately, I was sheltering a child and let him know. I was hoping he would call me later on that day, but no - NOTHING again.
My wild friend left for her honeymoon the day after the get together with him and comes back from the trip. Eagerly, she asks me how things went. I tell her and without telling me anything, she contacts him! She tells me about this three days later. Needless to say I am totally humiliated and hear that he sensed that I was looking for a long term relationship and didn’t want to ’start something that I couldn’t finish.’ Ok, that said, I get a text from him again and I call him to apologize for my friend’s action. He says that it’s ok and I tell him we should probably talk about it at some point. He agrees, but I don’t hear from him. With that, I heard that he came by a few times to see me the following week, but I wasn’t around.

Then today - out of the blue again, the other friend told me that she saw him (he works on patrol in the neighborhood) and he gave her my number asking me to contact him. She tells me that he doesn’t care for Wild Girl (she can be very outrageous/loud/inappropriate at times) and would like to speak to me away from her, therefore he never comes by anymore.
He apparently finds me very attractive, but again, is caught up in traveling (for work - he does the weekend warrior military thing), family etc…

I figure that if a man is really interested, he’ll call you himself. WTF? Messages through people - at our age it’s fuckin’ ridiculous. I’m not about to call his inconsistent ‘too busy with life’ ass. No matter how fine he is - and ladies he is most definately THAT fine! It’s too bad that it couldn’t really work out…. he has all the qualities (well from what I could tell in the course of 3 hours) that I’m looking for - well except for his inability to be attracted ENOUGH to get to know me?! Ok, fuck that…..

So hell, I put his number in my rolodex at work - because who knows - If I can’t get my groove on with someone I dig by my birthday… I may just give him a tumble. Gosh, that man is DEFINATELY fine…. make you talk about his ass 3 months later and wanna have his babies kinda fine…. you know what I’m talkin’ bout…..