The Dress

April 8th, 2009

I have a great wedding dress story. I found the dress boutique I liked before finding my dress. Then, I trolled the web sites of the designers (ok, let’s face it - manufacturers) that the store carried. There was one dress that stood above all others, that I simply loved on-line. I sort of filed it away and planned to call the store about the dress once I reached my dream weight. That didn’t happen.

Instead, one random day last year while eating lunch at work, I visited the store’s web site. My dress was listed - on the clearance page - at 80% off - in my size! Woooo! I called and begged the lady to take the listing down (it was listed on ebay) and told her I’d drive the 2 hours to her store after work to try on the dress. My mom and sister joined me on the crazy spur-of-the-moment trip. Long story short, the dress fit nearly perfectly, maybe a little snug across the hips (but not too tight), with only a slight alteration to the straps needed. We bought it and took it home, satisfied with our clever purchase!

The problem with only trying on one dress and then buying it immediately is the matter of second thought. Over the months after I bought the dress, I began to doubt my purchase. I would try the dress on and imagine flaws - the biggest being that I thought it made my hips look “poufy.” My mom knew I was upset, so she encouraged me one weekend to try on some other wedding dresses. I tried on about 10 other dresses; they certainly weren’t right for me. After comparing my dress to them, I knew, without a doubt, that my first dress was still the Dress. Still… there was the issue of the poufy hip effect.

This weekend, I tried on my dress for the first time in about 4 months. I finally had the “feeling” that I had hoped for - the tears, the joy, the giddy reaction from my family. I’m not back at my dream weight, but I have lost almost 10 lbs, I’m working out regularly, and I’m starting to get muscle definition. It’s funny how those changes eliminated the entire “poufy” hip effect. (Guess it’s not the fault of the basque waist after all!) Whether my hips really have shrunk to change how the dress fits, or whether I’m just happier with having taken control of my food/weight/exercise issues, I’m not sure. Still, it feels soooo good to know that I’m going to feel beautiful, in the Dress, on my wedding day!

One Response to “The Dress”

  1. rubyjean Says:

    Angel, what a lovely post! I enjoyed reading it, truly, truly. I am sure that you made the right (perfect) decision to buy that dress way back when you first had a good feeling about it! When you follow your heart it almost always works out the best. Good for you on the changes that you made that are starting to show! Please post a picture of yourself at some point in your wedding dress!
    Yes, probably we are alike…even to the point of obsessing over the recording of points/food, just to get the hang of it again. I do that exact same thing. I’ve never thought of myself as particularly creative, but as I age, I’m re-thinking many things, and I like the idea that this lifelong habit of tending to do things my own way (a.k.a. avoiding rules) is from something positive - like being creative.
    xoxoxoxox RubyJean

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