*WARNING* This post is rated R. If you don’t want to hear about me being crazy and drunk and hooking up with a guy then keep moving to the next blog*
OK, so I was a hermit throughout my marriage. Not by my choice mind you. My ex-husband was a homebody, couch potato. He left the house to go to work, to go to the gym and that was pretty much it. Very few exceptions, maybe once every 2-3 months a movie, but normally we sat around and watched TV. (No wonder I am here trying to lose weight!)
Now that I’m free and single, I so thoroughly enjoy going out with my girlfriends every once in awhile for a cocktail or a movie. Last weekend was just such an occasion. My friend’s boyfriend broke up with her last week and I was trying to make her feel better by taking her out for a drink or two. Her marriage ended at the same time as mine. I have only been on 2 first dates in that time frame. She has been with a couple different one night stands and just came out of a 6 month relationship. If you can’t tell, she absolutely does not like being alone. I jokingly have nicknamed her the female Jerry Maguire. So after a beer or two at a bar close to both our homes, a guy that had asked her out back several months ago when she was beginning her relationship with break-up guy, text her and asked us to come meet him. She begged me to go. I did not want to. It was a trendy bar clear on the other side of town. But I was trying to cheer her up so I went along. We both ended up drinking WAY too much and neither of us had eaten anything that day so we were fairly drunk. I don’t know when or how but next thing I know I’m making out with a guy. The next morning as we were talking, we realized that neither of us recall meeting. All I know is that a cute young guy took me home and I had sex for the first time since before my separation. It’s been 3 years people!!! And when I say young, I mean young! He’s 23…I’m 39. He’s closer in age to my youngest daughter than he is to me! I don’t care either. I’m allowed 1 crazy passionate night right??? One night stand or not, I had the best weekend ever :)))
I did not eat on Friday or Saturday which I know isn’t healthy but at least it made up for the amount of calories I drank.
I’ve been walking every day at lunch and I’m so happy about it. I am guaranteed to get in 30 minutes of exercise at least 3 times a week. (Sometimes work is just too busy for me to leave, but I try to anyway if for nothing else but stress relief!)
Cheers party people!
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